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Biggest turn ons during sex!

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Turnonsduringsex · 07/08/2022 12:30

What are your biggest turn ons during sex?

I am a fairly visual person and the sight of my partner giving me oral is a huge turn on, especially when I’m wearing some nice lingerie and he slides things to the side for easy access.

Dirty talk during sex is also something that drives me wild, we have only recently started doing this but at the right time OMG!!


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namechanged1010 · 16/12/2022 05:44

It was one of the best things ever when my DH tried talking dirty to me...slowly at first but he gained confidence when I responded and asked him to tell me more. He doesn't do every time we have sex but OMG it is good when he does...I've been able to respond and be dirty back which he really likes and loves asking me for more detail in between his moans.
The mind is very powerful

middleagedenial · 17/12/2022 06:40

It's incredible when I'm kissed passionately immediately after oral and when I do the same. Wet deep cummy kisses are so intense.

HippyDippyDooDaa · 18/12/2022 01:18

I have had a complete sexual revolution since meeting my fwb, three and a half years ago. I am lucky enough to be with a man who gets his pleasure from mine and loves exploring new ways to turn me on 😁
I now love: being submissive, spanking, bandage, dirty talk, toys. Sometimes the orgasms he gives me are out of this world!

cherrymiss · 21/12/2022 21:47

Eye contact, kisses all over Dirty filthy talk, dominance, whispers in my ear, anticipation (as in not touching my clit for as long as possible) teasing and eating me through my underwear making them wet. Putting fingers inside me and licking it off and telling me how i taste. Rubbing my clit with his cock.

Dorisisfreezing · 22/12/2022 14:29

To those enquiring, I am Female and we do tune in to each other except she is always more likely to lead, but likes to please me.
So not a totally even balance much of the time. But not complaining, she is not domineering as a male might be.

Angela59 · 24/12/2022 06:12

When he holds just the head inside me in the doggy position just the easing head in and out the the surge gets me and I’ll say ram it in!

But he doesn’t he teases me further, and makes me talk dirty.

“Say it! Say you’re addicted to my big black Nigerian c**ck! Say it!!

of course I’ll say anything at that moment!

PeanutKing · 05/12/2024 23:30

Wish I wasnt so late spotting this thread. Getting all hot and bothered reading all these! 😋

ELLEMAY87 · 06/12/2024 14:23

Let's carry it on then...
We love dirty talk, speaking about fantasies and watching porn together. I think the next step would be to meet a third or a couple. We love sex

PeanutKing · 06/12/2024 16:38

ELLEMAY87 · 06/12/2024 14:23

Let's carry it on then...
We love dirty talk, speaking about fantasies and watching porn together. I think the next step would be to meet a third or a couple. We love sex

We love fantasies and dirty talk too. Not sure about adding a third. But I think were like you. Totally horny couple, obsessed with sex!! 😂

jinglemybells85 · 06/12/2024 17:08

I don't have a partner currently but being able to adjust how hard my dick is with me being bionic and being able to continue even after I've orgasmed has always gone down well.

For me, i looove having my ear nibbled. no idea why but i love it!

NDerbys32 · 06/12/2024 20:02

Our thing used to be red wine, chocolate, porn film a couple of times a month. Loved it

lucylurcher · 06/12/2024 22:53

ghostsandpumpkinsalready · 13/11/2022 19:22

Having my ear holes licked.simple but very enjoyable

OH! No! Not that it makes me fight and flail around. My ears are far too sensitive.

My GF knows how to touch me, firm but soft at the same time, and how to squeeze such as my nips just hard enough to set me going but soft at the same time.

NDerbys32 · 07/12/2024 14:26

Love long, drawn out mutual massage, taking lots of time to get her off, that goes into doggy style. Far too rare these days but amazing for me.

bedtimeisthebest · 08/12/2024 11:52

NDerbys32 · 06/12/2024 20:02

Our thing used to be red wine, chocolate, porn film a couple of times a month. Loved it

Oh yes, I had a partner once and this exact experience was very much our thing too

Fireworksforme · 09/12/2024 10:05

I just found a post of mine here from 2 years ago with a different name. It was about the look in his eyes when he slid it into me.

A lot of water under the bridge since then. Divorce now completed and have had two women 'friends' since. Hoping to find another. So far only Bellesa and chat.

Kerkyra2024 · 09/12/2024 11:25

Spanking and when he initiates. Also when he gets really into it my DP enjoying himself is a huge turn on for me

Kerkyra2024 · 09/12/2024 11:26

Oh and my back and neck being kissed sends me on fire

2Yearsoffreedom · 09/12/2024 15:41

@Fireworks for me. Did you change from being straight to Same Sex relationship easily? I feel like I never want another man. I keep thinking about how nice (most) women are. Anything you might say to me to encourage or make me more realistic about it.
Sorry for going off topic.

Sara932 · 09/12/2024 19:15

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ThisBlueViewer · 09/12/2024 23:16

Personally I love spanking and if you combine that with a little bit of dirty talk God I'm going to be so wet

Stephy1886 · 10/12/2024 15:59

cum shot on my tits
always enjoyed this

Fireworksforme · 10/12/2024 16:32

Cum over my belly and add he adds some of my wetness then we hug close and kiss. It's a nice sticky and a great way to finish.

FrodisCapering · 11/12/2024 08:10

@2Yearsoffreedom just go for it! You won't look back.

2Yearsoffreedom · 11/12/2024 08:49

@FrodisCapering You have experience. May I PM to you?

myusernamewastakenbyme · 11/12/2024 22:03

I love being spanked too...I am very submissive and love him being quite rough....he also lightly chokes me....out of the bedroom we are equals and he is a teddy bear.

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