Fuck me up the arse!

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Basically in a period so don't want sex. He said can't I not fuck you up the arse! The biggest turn off ever in my eyes.
Said no I don't like it I do t want to.
He said fair enough... but if you wanted something I did t like I'd do it to please you and make you happy.

Aibu
Or his he?

Just read back and realised all mistakes sorry pissed off

YANBU

Bin

Nobody should do something they don't like sexually just to please someone else. YANBU

He's being unreasonable. Why would he want to do something you don't want to do

Is he 12?

He is a manipulative twat.

Well tell him you'll fuck him up the arse instead if he's that desperate. Meant to be the best orgasm for a man. Sorted.

Tell him he gets it first and then stick something up his bum and see if he likes it!

YANBU. He sounds like a real diamond .

Fucking hell, I'd never have sex with him again. Very unattractive.

🤢 No, you're not at all unreasonable. He's trying to guilt you into it by the sounds of it, compromising to make your partner happy is having their favourite takeaway instead of yours every other night, not this.

Of course YANBU.

Get a giant dildo and say that he can do it after you do it first.

Yuk. Is this a permanent relationship? How very unattractive of him. Does he often make demands of you?

You don't want sex then don't have sex.
He is basically saying you should have anal sex to please him because he would do something he didn't want or like to please you!
Awful bloke doesn't love you. You are just a shag and any will do, front or back.

BTB

Can you fuck him up the ass with a dildo?

Well he’s a keeper 🙄

Well easy answer say that you want to fuck him up the arse. Get a massive dildo and see if he likes it.

Great, tell him you’ve thought about what he said and how he’d do something you wanted that he didn’t, so you’d like to fuck him up the arse first. Then you’ll consider letting him do it. If he isn’t completely up for it, then he was just lying earlier, wasn’t he?

But actually, no, absolutely no one (not him or you) should ever have to do something they don’t want to do sexually and that act in particular is something that a lot of women need to be really turned on and have a lot of foreplay before, and then it still requires a lot of lube for it not to hurt (if he cares!). If you already don’t want sex, why the hell would you say yes to that? He basically thinks he just won’t touch you, while you’ve got a period, and shove it up another hole? YANBU, your boyfriend understands nothing about anal sex, and he sounds a prince.

Hahaha. Cross posted with @Justilou1, @Insertfunnyname, @dementedpixie, and @roopants. I mean, he SAID he’d do what you wanted…

There’s absolutely nothing reasonable about what he said! Tell him that your not interested but you could always fuck him up the arse (preferably with a toilet brush). Ask him how he feels about that?

Tell him you want to fuck him up the arse with a strap on whilst he wears a french maids outfit. After he he said he would do anything to make you happy.

No we can’t because it will hurt me and make me feel humiliated, but I tell you what if you don’t believe me , I will get my big vibrator out and we can try it on you first!! Do you fancy trying that you selfish twatt.