Fuck me up the arse!

[dazzlerdo]

Basically in a period so don't want sex. He said can't I not fuck you up the arse! The biggest turn off ever in my eyes.
Said no I don't like it I do t want to.
He said fair enough... but if you wanted something I did t like I'd do it to please you and make you happy.

Aibu
Or his he?

You are far from unreasonable!

What's the matter with the man that he can't go without for a little while (and wants to do something that will cause you pain)?

What is the question?

Stuff like this shouldn't be subject to negotiation or compromise. It's your arse ffs! If you say you don't fancy it then the subject is closed.

It's this kind of post that really makes me wish I was a lesbian! (Some) men are just fucking awful!

Can he not wait a few days until you're no longer bleeding? Is the THAT desperate for sex?

This one...

It's a no from me!!!!!!

Does at best sound like a very thoughtless twat
Next time your pissed get the massive dildo out !!
Hopefully he has realised how awful he was though I think you generally say when pissed what your too shy to say when sober

I think he could be a twat but he could also have not realised how twatty it sounds.

My DW and I after years of saying no no no never have realised that for both of us a bit of pressure round there is nice...how about a compromise?

Say if he can fit this up his bum you'd be up for thinking about it?

www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/king-cock-mega-chubby-realistic-black-suction-cup-dildo-7-inch/a39318g73542.html

Seriously just tell him how stupid what he says sounds and see how he reacts..you'll know for sure then, good luck!!

I used to ask, but tried to negotiate one a year on anniversary. After yr10
I gave up.
She will poke her fingers in mine but if my fingers get anywhere near her arse -- all! muscles! clamp shut!