Excessive squirting and loud sex!

[Campzilla]

This may well be a non- problem but I’d like advice from more experienced people.

I’ve not long come out of a 20years r/ship and now have a new bf. The sex is mind blowing (not complaining!). The orgasms are out of this world and I’ve been squirting like I never have had before. My issue is that I now seem to be able to do it with very little effort. I squirt on anticipation of him entering me, I squirt when masturbating. During sex it happens a lot! I’m not complaining as such (allow the sheets need washed a lot!) but it’s just so new for me that I was wondering if this was normal?!!

Also, does anyone have any strategies / suggestions for quieter sex? The noise I make is ridiculous and I can’t seem to control it! I’m doubting the neighbours would hear as i live in a detached house but wondering how we’ll ever manage to have sex in a hotel room or another persons house!

As a said, these are probably non issues but until now I hadn’t realised what I was missing out on and it’s all quite new! Thanks

Reminds me of the line in When Harry met Sally..... “I’ll have whatever she’s having”
Just Kew enjoying yourselves

Keep not Kew

All sounds great to me. Biting a pillow maybe? I've used that tactic before 😂

Thanks
I’m glad to know nothing stands out as unusual!! It’s definitely a lot of fun!

Hello modest boyfriend pretending to be your girlfriend!

All sounds good to me, personally I’ve only clicked with one person that way, and she could squirt from oral and penetration (only with her ontop),
She didn’t make a lot of noise as such, but did swear a lot 😄.
Was all good

A ball gag and towels?

It sounds fantastic a lot of people would be extremely jealous maybe put your own finger in your mouth or his. Squirting is an act that many are unable to perform so I would say go for it

Are you sure you're actually squirting rather than just getting wet? So you orgasm while waiting for him to enter you?

Squirting whilst in anticipation is very unusual I'd say

I LOVE that you're enjoying yourself and exploring your sexuality a bit more, more power to you 🙂

But equally I've been the neighbour on the other side of the wall 🤣 and it's a bit troubling to essentially be dragged into someone's sex life without consent, I always felt bad and a bit icky about overhearing it. All the time it's not impacting anyone else I think crack on as you are, but maybe practice being quiet ready for when you can go on holiday again 😉

@cookiecreampie yeah definitely, it’s an actual squirt

@SomewhereInbetween1 I actually really appreciate this perspective. Luckily there’s no one through the wall but I’m going to be more cautious of the noise I think.

I feel abit weird now posting. It was bothering me abit earlier but I’m an over thinker and need to learn to go with the flow more!
It’s certainly a reawakening anyway !!

Jesus I wish! My current BF told me he made a previous Gf squirt yet I barley Orgasm with him. It's frustrating. Happy for you though

How are you having an orgasm just in anticipation???

I found that once you learn how to squirt it almost gets easier every time. I guess your mind lets go of any inhibitions or worries so you can just relax into it.

We had a couple over for a play date last weekend. She was a prolific squirter! I have to confess that my immediate thought was for my carpet but I got so turned on watching that, when DP slid a finger in, I burst too!

Had to Vax the carpet next day and am currently avoiding eye contact with my neighbours! 😂

Keep enjoying yourself, I say!

@Kittykat93

How are you having an orgasm just in anticipation???

By being extremely turned on. I’ve done this twice at the very start of my relationship.

I am similar, had been in a crap abusive relationship for many years, then 7 years on my own, so rediscovered my sexuality and being older in peri menopause stage, libido is much higher. I’m much more in tune with myself probably because I only had myself to play with!

Then met a brilliant matched playmate, sex is out of this world, total connection, so I find it easy to orgasm on my own or with playmate.

I squirt and flood, there is a difference. Squirt comes from clit area (maybe g spot, I’m usually too in the throes to notice) and the flood comes more from vagina.

If I’m at the height then I can keep squirting then flooding, squirt flood squirt and this will just continue on. Sometimes this will carry on to one or two more sessions a few hours later or that night or following day, like I’m mega turned on. I can cum around 10to25 times at once sometimes, not sure if it’s just part of one huge orgasm or just lots of little ones. It feels very cleansing afterwards though.

I’ve also found having a bit of a prolapse is helping (who would have thought! 😉), as everything has fallen ‘downwards’ more and is more ‘accessible’ now.

I’m also extremely noisy, that’s new for me, I used to be really quiet! I cannot shut up, I don’t really care, I’m just careful to shut windows, although my playmate came over once and left front door wide open and I was going for it... I’m very glad most of my neighbours are geriatric and deaf! 😅

I just shove a pillow in my face if I’m too OTT. I’m even noisy by myself I just can’t help myself, just feels right to be really uninhibited, but I bellowed when giving birth too, so I think I just changed and gave in to myself and let go. Very empowering anyway.

Glad u r enjoying it, it’s bloody marvellous except for all the washing!

I'm really enjoying this thread. So joyful and un-abandoned. Just seeing the thread title makes me grin x

@Vegiepatch OMG!! You have described it completely. Yes to the squirt / flood that’s exactly it! And to the feeling of being mega turned on for hours afterwards! I’ve never experienced that. You’d think after multiple orgasms, I’d be done , but no- happy to go again anytime!! Interestingly , I also have a mild prolapse! I’ve never imagined it could be a positive thing

I’m honestly so glad you’ve posted!!

@PinotPony. I’ve definitely noticed it becomes easier and definitely less inhibited as my bf seems to love it too.

@Campzilla HaHa, yes the wonders of a mild prolapse! Have you ever had the sound of champagne fizzing in your ears? When I get to those real highs I get the ‘fizz’ happening.

It’s like this amazing sensory experience. Actually the first time it happened I thought I had done some serious damage to my hearing, cos it lasted about 30mins. I was planning how I was going to explain it my GP 🤣

I love it, it’s beautiful!

I also have just worked out another way to have even more amazing orgasms (seriously, it’s ridiculous what the body can do!). All thanks to my physio, (although she doesn’t know it! 😉)

So funny because I went to her to learn about pelvic floor exercises and check the prolapse. She is a VERY no nonsense uptight person.

Anyway, there she was explaining how to do the pelvic exercise properly, she had her finger inside my vagina and got me to squeeze the right way, then she started explaining something else while she left her finger in there and I kept practising to check with her that I was doing it correctly because it’s quite hard to do.

Then when I got home, I was thinking, cor blimey, I feel quite turned on 😂. So I ‘practiced’ the same technique, had a play and WOW! 🤪🤪🤪 it was insane!!

So then I tried again next day, same technique and hey presto! I’ve got this totally new way to orgasm intensely and within 5-10 mins, whereas it usually takes me 10-20mins unless I’m super turned on.

And it’s even more of the opening floodgates than before. It’s nuts. I might need to buy some rehydration drinks 😅😅😅

@Vegiepatch oh wow that sounds amazing.

I’ll need to practice my pelvic floor exercises more I think!!!

We do have a laugh about rehydration drinks

@Campzilla I totally get so thirsty afterwards. Not surprising! 😜

So. Fucking. Jealous.

I am exactly the same. I stopped caring about floods and noise now. I am just enjoying myself 😬😂
so should you! 😉

Well this thread has been a wonderful share. I wasn't being snippy when I said ball gag and towels... I'm another who has found myself gushing and groaning recently and I've been known to grab a ball gag to keep my shrieks down a bit (I live in a mid terrace in a road where everyone knows everyone- but not everything!).

I'm 59 and over the last year have discovered aspects of my body that I never believed possible. I'm now multi orgasmic (or is it one long one?...), I get the ringing in my ears, I disappear into a trance and I gush. I can gush from spanking, toys, oral, (but not yet in anticipation, but having read this thread I'm hopeful).

This all happened when I took a massive risk and met up with a man of my age who loves shibari (tying up with rope). Together we have discovered new heights of arousal for me and him. I now spend most weekends in a state of arousal like I've never experienced with this man, it's opened my eyes, my brain and my psyche to a new world of pleasure. Who knew this would happen at nearly 60?

I'm so enthused to hear I'm not the only one enjoying this new found sexual pleasure. Keep on squirting and shouting!