Excessive squirting and loud sex!

[Campzilla]

This may well be a non- problem but I’d like advice from more experienced people.

I’ve not long come out of a 20years r/ship and now have a new bf. The sex is mind blowing (not complaining!). The orgasms are out of this world and I’ve been squirting like I never have had before. My issue is that I now seem to be able to do it with very little effort. I squirt on anticipation of him entering me, I squirt when masturbating. During sex it happens a lot! I’m not complaining as such (allow the sheets need washed a lot!) but it’s just so new for me that I was wondering if this was normal?!!

Also, does anyone have any strategies / suggestions for quieter sex? The noise I make is ridiculous and I can’t seem to control it! I’m doubting the neighbours would hear as i live in a detached house but wondering how we’ll ever manage to have sex in a hotel room or another persons house!

As a said, these are probably non issues but until now I hadn’t realised what I was missing out on and it’s all quite new! Thanks

So another take on this

My guy always says he can ' feel me squirt ' in orgasming . But there is never a flood of liquid , I'm just very wet . This is if I orgasm through penetration with lots of stimulation on my g spot .

I wonder what it is he's feeling as I'm definitely not squirting everywhere .

@mooncats, yes I was thinking about this the other day, that maybe a lot of women describe themselves as very wet, which when that happens to me is similar to when I squirt or flood but just not as much propulsion? For me the squirt can be a little or a high fountain squirt if I’m positioned on my back and doing it myself. The flood is definitely a larger amount. But not saturating the carpet/floor or like the amount if u did a wee lol, but enough to soak right through a big patch on a towel.

it comes from somewhere clitoral though, near gspot I think

This doesn't really make sense as the clitorus is nowhere near the G spot.

@VanGoghsDog

it comes from somewhere clitoral though, near gspot I think

This doesn't really make sense as the clitorus is nowhere near the G spot.

There's a school of thought that the g spot is simply the underside of the clitoris... which is plausible when you think about how big the clitoris actually is...

It's just a female penis really... but with many more nerve endings!

@PinotPony

Pretty sure the post I was replying to didn't mean that at all.

I really object to the clitorus being described as a female penis, as if male is the default.

No, I understand that the PP was talking about where the fluid comes from. I was just responding to your comment that the clitoris isn't anywhere near the g spot. Like many people I hadn't always realised that the clitoris can be stimulated from inside the vagina.

Ok let me rephrase... it's surprising to me how similar the anatomy is to the male genitalia. Better?

Yes any threads about the joys of squirting always end in discussion of whether it’s pee or not. In my experience it does not smell like pee at all to either party and as long as both parties are enjoying it then who actually cares about the chemical content. I enjoy every moment of it from the build up to the release and the delirious high after

Lol @onemorerose, I work from home a lot so the delirious high also means my brain is empty for a really long time afterwards so I can’t work afterwards if it’s day session! (Tbh I can’t even string two words together- I’m just a vacuous grinning fool). 🤪

There was a TV programme years ago about this and I can remember a young woman masturbating on camera. They tested the fluid produced and stated it was similar to that produced by the prostate in men.