Awkward - how to corrupt my DP

[LustfulInMiltonKeynes]

OK this is a bit of an awkward sex one guys so I've NC. No pisstaking please im looking for some genuine help.

Basically i love my DP; everythings great, EXCEPT - I'm getting bored in bed. We've only been together 1.5 years but he's not the most imaginative.

The problem is I'm used to quite enterprising men, so whilst im open and willing I'm not used to having to instigate anything that strays off the vanilla path.

So I've ordered a few things but really dont know how to go about introducing them. I know he will definitely be open to new stuff its just a question of how do I introduce it? Any ideas for getting the ball rolling?

Heres what I bought:
Paddle (ive actually never used one before)
Tape (basically seems to work like ties or handcuffs but i thought the tape would be more rough n ready than the other two)

I also bought a kind of sexy leather dress thing from ann summers.

Just FYI i am absolutely not interested in being the dominant one, im interested in him using the stuff mentioned above but i just have no idea how to introduce it or get the ball rolling. I mean surely i cant just plonk it down on the bed in the middle of getting down with it, and be like "there you go".

Im quite into role playing and i have tested this out on DP before (i pretended to be an escort) and he goes with it which is good. So maybe im looking for some sort of scenario i can instigate?

One way i thought of doing this is we live in a massive block of flats with a shared basement and our own garage which he uses every day. Am thinking i could move things down there and stage something? But how?

Any ideas from anyone more experienced, as i said i have no experience being the instigator and i dont think he has any experience at all in this kind of thing so just worried it will be awkward/feel stupid.

OP

. Forget the extras at the moment, start off slowly, introduce one thing at a time.

1. Play a harmless game, where u have to answer questions....or him or both...if u get them wrong, you get a spank. If he gets turned on by this..,u can talk about it and notch it up to the paddle. But don't jump to the paddle straight away..,introduce slowly.

1. The tape you can actually wear...if it's the tape I'm thinking of. Strap it around your waist...something for him to hold onto with doggy style

1. The outfit....do your escort scenario but put the dress under a coat...knock on the door, he opens, u slip it off...all part of the role play.

I wouldn't introduce them all together but slowly chat about these things and make them fun. Then introduce them

Hope that helps

Ahhh colleague had a similar plan...meet dh at the train only wearing a trench coat...planned to have sex in the vehicle ASAP.
Train delayed, spouse disembarked WITH A WORK MATE, who he had offered a ride home to....
Good luck OP, I might play along once but I’d be ending the relationship the next day.

The tape can mark your wrists...better to wear it

Apropos

If you like it, have him blindfold you - he might feel there's less pressure if you can't see him.

We're just going to move this thread over to the sex topic

I find that talking about sex and likes is a lot easier when already aroused, especially whispering in ears as being touched