At what age...

[Isaiaheva]

did you lose your virginity?

20, unhealthily late, in my opinion.

Do you think mephistopheles? NObody showed any interest in going OUT with me until I was 20, plenty of guys would have done me the 'favour' of shagging me though, so it didn't happen til I was 20. I thought that was healthy.

My sister was 23, and I know a relative of a friend is 29 and a virgin. 20 isn't late I wouldn't say.

21 which was quite late I suppose. Many friends had lost theirs at 17 or 18.

Am kind of at the amount of people saying 13/14. But then I am in my 40s and grew up in Ireland so it may be a generational/ cultural difference.

18 to my Dh

20 - it was great

14 although it was a couple of weeks before 15th bday.

13

Consenually? 18. Still a lovely chap though we split up 6 months later.

15. It was crap. I didn't actually do it again until I was 17! And I don't think I had really, really good sex until I was in my 20, tbh.

15 few months off 16, massively regret it as it wasn't a relationship and it wasn't loving or anything

Kittyoshea im irish too and i know it has all changed now but yeh, it wasnt that odd back then.
my english friend had me in stitches telling me her dad walked in on her and her bf at 15 & she yelled at him to get out and he said sorry.

19

16

Mince I can't picture my dad ever doing that!

I know! My Dad would evicted the foreign body (teenage boy) and then there would have been weeks of painful analysis...............

19, with now dh.

17, with now DH.

22. I don't regret waiting at all. That said I had done everything but by that age. Makes me feel sad to think of my very immature and sheltered 16 year old self being pressured into things I wasn't ready for/didn't understand. Already thinking about how I can prepare DD not to make the same mistakes even though she has only just turned one!

DH grew up in a small village on the west coast of Ireland and lost his at 13. He's 41 now.

I was thoroughly shocked. He said there wasn't much else to do.

16

Wanted get it out of the way.
I was dreading , I wanted it to be someone I didn't know that well.
I thought I would be mortified if I had to see him very often.
I did fancy him , he didn't know it was my first time.

26. I don't think it's unhealthy late, as a pp said - in fact, I find that quite offensive.

Having said that, I did have some issues - it would have been around 18 if my body had done what I wanted it to when I wanted it to.