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Secondary place withdrawn today please help

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Middleoftheroad · 13/06/2017 15:50

I am still shaking

I have equal ability twins. One got into grammar one did not. We moved closer to be near the grammar and to secure my other twin a place at the local school, which we did at the start of March.

We have been through much heartache as this is a new area and a new school and my boys have been sad. I worked with the LA to secure the place after we moved. because we moved around offers day we were originally offered a failing school in our old LA which we declined once we had the new offer at the local school.

We did also appeal the grammar place for the comp bound twin - we proved his academic ability and the HT (presenting officer) said we gave a very persuasive case, but we were unsuccessful as they never allocate places on appeal. The boys wanted to be together but we were safe in the knowledge that whatever happened we had a comprehensive school place.

The twin who is going to comp has previously been under CAHMs for anxiety. He started to display these signs again so we took him to the doctor and have been working really hard to gee him up.

Tomorrow was meant to be a special transition day at the new school (he watched his twin go off to the grammar one yesterday) and we were looking forward to it.

out of the blue the HT of the comp calls me today to tell me that the LA has made a mistake in allocating its places and have withdrawn the place. The school wanted to let me know before the LA letter arrives so we don't go to the event tomorrow.

I have emailed my contact at the LA (ironically she is in appeals) the last place offered was 1.02 miles we are 1.04. I suspect they are currently allocating appeals places which we have missed the right to appeal. she says she is looking into it but as of right now we have no school place and I have a son on his way home who will be broken if we tell him.

We've had such an ordeal to get here. Aside from being morally bankrupt, is there a legal leg to stand on here? Apparently the LA messed up on quite a few offers made.

I just don't know what to do. I took the call at work and had to leave early. we have bought the uniform and built up to tomorrow. I am in total disbelief and feel sickened that my son is being messed around this way.

I have emailed the school again to ask that they intervene. Please help Tiggytape anybody?

OP posts:
PossumInAPearTree · 27/06/2017 18:29

Yay.

PettsWoodParadise · 27/06/2017 18:35

Whoop. Well done, your persistence has paid off and let's hope the school have learnt a lesson so others don't experience this in the future.

Nix32 · 27/06/2017 18:47

Really pleased for you

WalkingToMordor · 27/06/2017 18:51

Have been lurking on your thread but logged in to say congratulations. I am so pleased that you got the outcome you deserved.

TheSnorkMaidenReturns · 27/06/2017 18:51

So pleased for you. Have been pressing bookmark and refresh with indecent regularity.

MrsMontgomerySmythe · 27/06/2017 19:06

Well done for fighting like a tiger for your boy.

Now go and put your feet up with a large glass of wine - you deserve it.

MrsJamin · 27/06/2017 19:10

Wow that's wonderful news, what brilliant support you got from MN's resident admissions experts too.

viques · 27/06/2017 19:15

"Inconvenience" ! So relieved for you, it was a dreadful situation that should never have arisen in the first place. So glad too that your DS is still blissfully unaware that his mum is a secret ninja tiger with extraordinary powers!

PatriciaHolm · 27/06/2017 19:16

Excellent!

Acornantics · 27/06/2017 19:22

Brilliant news! I've followed your story and have been willing common sense to prevail, thank God for that, but what a stressful process for you to endure.

We went through an appeal a few years ago and it was upheld due to maladministration by the school (in charge of its own admissions), it was frustrating and stressful, but as with you, PRH and Admission kept me sane and gave me the confidence to pursue the appeal, support in compiling the paperwork and were so helpful and kind. They are awesome!

So happy you've got places for both your boys now, time to relax and enjoy the last few weeks of primary!

Jetcatisback · 27/06/2017 19:27

Been lurking and following, well done you!

dancemom · 27/06/2017 19:29

Congratulations middle

Might want to prep your son though, other pupils might be talking about their first induction day which you told him was cancelled? You might want to have a story / excuse ready?

Allthebestnamesareused · 27/06/2017 19:43

Fab news. Have also been following and wondering. You had mentioned the funeral so I realised it might not be until today that you'd be up to posting.

rightwhine · 27/06/2017 19:52

So pleased for you.

Heartoverheadhouse · 27/06/2017 20:02

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ChocolateWombat · 27/06/2017 20:12

So sorry Middle has been through this, but isn't it MN at its best?

  • the level of support has been fab - people checking up on progress during the crisis and since the appeal hearing
  • the wonderful expertise shared by generous and spot-on experts
  • the joy at the right outcome from everyone

Makes you feel proude to be part of it!

BewareOfDragons · 27/06/2017 20:25

Delighted for you and your DS.

I hope he enjoys his upcoming visiting day and makes lots of new friends.

MrsMontgomerySmythe · 27/06/2017 20:34

Could not agree more ChocolateWombat Smile

Littledrummergirl · 27/06/2017 20:45

WineWineWine
I've been checking in stalking this loads to see how you got on. I'm really pleased for you. Well done for keeping it together, you are amazing. Flowers

Haffdonga · 27/06/2017 20:53

Flowers Grin Flowers

And for holding your nerve Gin

GoodyGoodyGumdrops · 27/06/2017 21:01

Eaxcellent result!

ShellbyBell · 27/06/2017 21:01

That is truly fantastic news! Well done x Wine Flowers

mychildrenarebarmy · 27/06/2017 21:02

Fanbloomingtastic Middle

FoxSticks · 27/06/2017 21:41

That's amazing news! Well done Wine

peukpokicuzo · 27/06/2017 21:43

Excellent! So glad for you.

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