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Secondary place withdrawn today please help

449 replies

Middleoftheroad · 13/06/2017 15:50

I am still shaking

I have equal ability twins. One got into grammar one did not. We moved closer to be near the grammar and to secure my other twin a place at the local school, which we did at the start of March.

We have been through much heartache as this is a new area and a new school and my boys have been sad. I worked with the LA to secure the place after we moved. because we moved around offers day we were originally offered a failing school in our old LA which we declined once we had the new offer at the local school.

We did also appeal the grammar place for the comp bound twin - we proved his academic ability and the HT (presenting officer) said we gave a very persuasive case, but we were unsuccessful as they never allocate places on appeal. The boys wanted to be together but we were safe in the knowledge that whatever happened we had a comprehensive school place.

The twin who is going to comp has previously been under CAHMs for anxiety. He started to display these signs again so we took him to the doctor and have been working really hard to gee him up.

Tomorrow was meant to be a special transition day at the new school (he watched his twin go off to the grammar one yesterday) and we were looking forward to it.

out of the blue the HT of the comp calls me today to tell me that the LA has made a mistake in allocating its places and have withdrawn the place. The school wanted to let me know before the LA letter arrives so we don't go to the event tomorrow.

I have emailed my contact at the LA (ironically she is in appeals) the last place offered was 1.02 miles we are 1.04. I suspect they are currently allocating appeals places which we have missed the right to appeal. she says she is looking into it but as of right now we have no school place and I have a son on his way home who will be broken if we tell him.

We've had such an ordeal to get here. Aside from being morally bankrupt, is there a legal leg to stand on here? Apparently the LA messed up on quite a few offers made.

I just don't know what to do. I took the call at work and had to leave early. we have bought the uniform and built up to tomorrow. I am in total disbelief and feel sickened that my son is being messed around this way.

I have emailed the school again to ask that they intervene. Please help Tiggytape anybody?

OP posts:
FuckYouDailyMail · 26/06/2017 16:47

Checking in to see how you are doing OP, hope the post brought you good news.

Evalina · 26/06/2017 16:51

Have been lurking, but wishing you good news soon..

HSMMaCM · 26/06/2017 17:12

I can't believe they haven't already called you with your offer !

DrSpin · 26/06/2017 17:35

Good luck Flowers

viques · 26/06/2017 17:41

Saw updates, was hoping for news. I do hope OP is out celebrating with the boys.

eternalopt · 26/06/2017 18:17

Crossing fingers for a good update soon. Appalling treatment.

Haffdonga · 26/06/2017 18:30

Good luck Middle. We all want justice for your boy.

(Earlier OP said she wouldn't be home until late today because of a funeral Sad so we may not hear anything for a while.)

booellesmum · 26/06/2017 18:31

Hope today brought good news.

SouthWestmom · 26/06/2017 20:04

IVE been following this and forgot to post before. Hope you have good news.

Nix32 · 26/06/2017 20:04

Really hope you've had good news x

ChocolateWombat · 26/06/2017 21:13

We've all been rooting for you.
Really hope you've had some news.....and of the good variety and that there aren't any further glitches.

MrsMontgomerySmythe · 26/06/2017 21:49

Fingers crossed here that justice will be done.

ThatsWotSheSaid · 26/06/2017 22:21

I have everything crossed for your DS. :)

ABitOTT · 26/06/2017 23:13

Just checking in OP to see if there's any news? Will be keeping everything crossed for a positive outcome for you & your sonFlowers

teaandakitkat · 27/06/2017 12:33

Hope you're all ok

MadisonAvenue · 27/06/2017 13:28

Hope you've had good news OP.

Reow · 27/06/2017 13:40

Hope he got in OP!

PeggyBabcockBoot · 27/06/2017 14:22

Please come back and update OP!

StormTreader · 27/06/2017 14:40

Gosh what a saga! I hope youve had good news OP!

Zoflorabore · 27/06/2017 14:50

Another one hoping for good news today, I remember chasing the postman waiting for our first letterGrin

ShinyGirl · 27/06/2017 17:26

Hope you've got a place now

eternalopt · 27/06/2017 17:28

Hoping the silence is because you're too busy celebrating to post @Middleoftheroad !

Middleoftheroad · 27/06/2017 17:33

Hello and thankyou for not forgetting me!

I apologise for the delay but I only found out today.

We won!

We got the letter today.

And a letter from the LA offering a place off waiting list. ... Jeez!

I'm happy and angry in equal measure Shock

OP posts:
Reow · 27/06/2017 17:34

Hooray!WineWineWineWineWine

What a bunch of fucking donkeys.

shouldwestayorshouldwego · 27/06/2017 17:37

I would say congratulations but it should never have happened in the first place. I hope he has a fab time at his transition day and he enjoys his new school.