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Secondary place withdrawn today please help

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Middleoftheroad · 13/06/2017 15:50

I am still shaking

I have equal ability twins. One got into grammar one did not. We moved closer to be near the grammar and to secure my other twin a place at the local school, which we did at the start of March.

We have been through much heartache as this is a new area and a new school and my boys have been sad. I worked with the LA to secure the place after we moved. because we moved around offers day we were originally offered a failing school in our old LA which we declined once we had the new offer at the local school.

We did also appeal the grammar place for the comp bound twin - we proved his academic ability and the HT (presenting officer) said we gave a very persuasive case, but we were unsuccessful as they never allocate places on appeal. The boys wanted to be together but we were safe in the knowledge that whatever happened we had a comprehensive school place.

The twin who is going to comp has previously been under CAHMs for anxiety. He started to display these signs again so we took him to the doctor and have been working really hard to gee him up.

Tomorrow was meant to be a special transition day at the new school (he watched his twin go off to the grammar one yesterday) and we were looking forward to it.

out of the blue the HT of the comp calls me today to tell me that the LA has made a mistake in allocating its places and have withdrawn the place. The school wanted to let me know before the LA letter arrives so we don't go to the event tomorrow.

I have emailed my contact at the LA (ironically she is in appeals) the last place offered was 1.02 miles we are 1.04. I suspect they are currently allocating appeals places which we have missed the right to appeal. she says she is looking into it but as of right now we have no school place and I have a son on his way home who will be broken if we tell him.

We've had such an ordeal to get here. Aside from being morally bankrupt, is there a legal leg to stand on here? Apparently the LA messed up on quite a few offers made.

I just don't know what to do. I took the call at work and had to leave early. we have bought the uniform and built up to tomorrow. I am in total disbelief and feel sickened that my son is being messed around this way.

I have emailed the school again to ask that they intervene. Please help Tiggytape anybody?

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tiggytape · 27/06/2017 17:37

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zoemaguire · 27/06/2017 17:38

Hurray! Congratulations! And woah, what an unbelievable catalogue of LA fuckupsShock but the main thing is that your son's place is secure (twice over it seems!!!)

PandaG · 27/06/2017 17:39

Oh fantastic! I haven't posted before as had nothing useful to add, but I have been following your saga. So pleased for you. :)

Sittinginthesun · 27/06/2017 17:40

Thank bloody goodness for that.
Flowers

Zoflorabore · 27/06/2017 17:40

Yay!!
So pleased op :) what a complete and utter mess but ultimately you fought for your son and rightly so, he will never need to know any different now, phew, bet you're relieved.
Massive well done to you xx

TiddlesUpATree · 27/06/2017 17:41

Yippee. So pleased for you all.

cantkeepawayforever · 27/06/2017 17:42

Phew. I have been reading this, hoping that nobody would be so absolutely clueless as not to allow the appeal ... but such was the saga of incompetence that I began to fear they would do something stupid!

Now breathe, send in your acceptance and sleep well!

ChocolateWombat · 27/06/2017 17:43

Great news.

I'm sure you feel relief and will then feel really angry at what you've been put through.
Enjoy the relief and celebrate....try to forget about the anger for a bit so you can savour knowing you are happy with where your boys are off to.

LilaBard · 27/06/2017 17:44

Brilliant news! Was a bit worried when we hadn't heard that it didn't go your way, but so delighted for you that it has! Common sense wins out for once x

QGMum · 27/06/2017 17:44

Really pleased for you and DT!

NWgirls · 27/06/2017 17:45

Brilliant! FlowersHaloWineCake

Middleoftheroad · 27/06/2017 17:47

Thankyou all. I was at a funeral yesterday and just saw how many of you asked after me. Grin

Your support and advice helped me through.

Yes Tiggy even now the LA has muddied the waters!

I am just relieved that somebody saw sense in the end. It was all so unnecessary. The upset this caused is hard to shake.

I'm just pleased DS will never know. He is now looking forward to his induction which I can talk about. Good job as DS2 has an imduction tomorrow!

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Gileswithachainsaw · 27/06/2017 17:47

Oh that brilliant well done you!!

Now get some wine and some chocolate and finally get some rest you must be exhausted
So happy for you and your ds.Flowers

prh47bridge · 27/06/2017 17:48

I am not surprised you won given what you said about the hearing but I'm glad the panel did the right thing. Sorry this has been so stressful for you but at least you've got the right result. I wish admission authorities didn't make parents go through appeals where the result should be a foregone conclusion but many do, even in situations where the appeals code is clear that they shouldn't. Now take a deep breath and relax. Well done.

DakotaFanny · 27/06/2017 17:48

Hooooorrrraaaaaayyyyyyyy !!!!! Well done super mum!!!

StormTreader · 27/06/2017 17:49

Hurrah! Im glad you wont have to be out measuring the corner of your property with tape measures in the middle of the night to argue to boundary cutoff :D

Icouldbeknitting · 27/06/2017 17:58

I've had nothing useful to say but I've been here from the start. I am so pleased that you are back where you should be. What a nightmare!

SnowBallsAreHere · 27/06/2017 17:58

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RandomMess · 27/06/2017 17:59

So happy for you!

Wonder if the school will end up with a bulge class to accommodate all these extras...

Middleoftheroad · 27/06/2017 18:01

prh47bridge - you kept me sane. Thankyou again!

The LA said it was sorry for the inconvenience Angry

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Middleoftheroad · 27/06/2017 18:02

It is a big school with 250 per year so hoping it will not be noticeable.

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ajandjjmum · 27/06/2017 18:11

Brilliant news - well done you!

olliepolly · 27/06/2017 18:21

Also been following , so pleased for you all what a relief.

prh47bridge · 27/06/2017 18:27

You are very welcome. Glad I could help.

ASDismynormality · 27/06/2017 18:29

What a lot of unnecessary stress. Glad it's all worked out!