how many partners have you had?

[juice]

just being nosy , so you dont have to answer if you dont want to.
i had 1 serious reltionship before hubby.
i have had sexual relations with 10 men.
sometimes i think it is too many , but then you hear some stories of young girls and i dont think its that many.
there is only 1 i regret, so aint too bad, i think.

I'll 'fess up, piffle. My ex and I were magic in bed. Outside that, a disaster.

"By loulabelle222 on Tuesday, 16 August, 2005 7:58:41 PM

i didnt say save yourself for the right man! I don't believe in religion either all I am saying is I believe that you should save your self for someone you love not any tom dick or harry? I bet those blokes or should i say boys were having a good laugh at your expense. As i said though as long as noone was hurt I don't really care. Good luck to u."

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

Actually, they couldn't laugh as they were too busy writhing in orgasmic euphoria .

Loulabelle, you have really not shown yourself in a pleasant light on this thread.

LOL @ NDP, actually Loulabelle's lack of tact and diplomacy have surfaced on a few threads, I like to think it is youthful naivety.....

Oh, and one more thing....

"By loulabelle222 on Tuesday, 16 August, 2005 7:58:41 PM

i didnt say save yourself for the right man!"

Hmmmmm, are you sure ?

"By loulabelle222 on Tuesday, 16 August, 2005 12:33:13 PM

but the thing is your only 23! what about saving yourself for the right person?"

Lizzylou, I'm sure you're right. I look forward to reading more of her fascinating insights

not to mention saving yourself for the right cake

I'll fess to that, too. I had a fling with a old lust-object from uni whilst with a long-term boyfriend

The sex was absolutely mind-blowing. Literally - I think it rewired some of my synapses

But sadly, out of bed he could barely string a sentence together...

A problem shared with many lads in Aber, Snafu

rofl ninah & snafu.

slaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaag

HA !

Well, I am sure your mouth can stretch.....

Heh Heh Heh.

xxxxxxx

Only joking petal.

xx

I've had some fabulous sex and some pretty sordid sex. What the hell. Had I presented myself to my dear partner as a 36 year old virgin I reckon he'd have screamed and run for the door

i'm exempt from the SugarBabes club so I had profiteroles for breakfast! haha
and me too snafu, I went out with this extremely sexy Brazilian guy. It was only when he learned a smattering of English that I realised he was not so much dark and mysterious as dark and a bit simple ...

Loulubelle, sleeping with lots of partners is something to be proud of because

a) It means loads of partners fancied you enough to want to have sex

b) You can be an accurate judge of how good someone is in bed.

c) You really know what you are doing. For yourself and your partner.

I strongly feel that sex is merely a pastime, like tennis. I only refrain from having sex with other people because my partner doesn't want me to, and I love him enough to want to please him.

If I didn't have a partner, I would sleep with as many men as I wanted to. I would feel no more guilty about sex than I would about tennis. Both are mere physical activities.

I'm a bit jealous of some of you guys... I've only been with DH As nice as it is in some ways, I always kind of wonder what else I could have done!!!

Sex more fun than tennis IMO.

Was never all that keen on tennis... now sex on the other hand I could quite happily do...

FS, I don't think it's wrong to only sleep with one guy too. As long as that is what you want, it is nothing to be ashamed of, whether it's lots or none.

Colditz - in no way judgemental, what's right for you is right for you - but just out of interest, would you be happy for your daughter (don't know if you have one) to view sex the same way?