how many partners have you had?

[juice]

just being nosy , so you dont have to answer if you dont want to.
i had 1 serious reltionship before hubby.
i have had sexual relations with 10 men.
sometimes i think it is too many , but then you hear some stories of young girls and i dont think its that many.
there is only 1 i regret, so aint too bad, i think.

Not ashamed of it, just sort of wonder what else is out there...

I've never had any complaints though (from me or him)... definately won't be seeing me on a "I've never had an orgasm" thread

As long as she genuinely did veiw sex that way, and wasn't having many partners out of self esteem problems, or being bullied into it by them. I would make it clear that condoms are essential if you are not trying to get pregnant,.

I think I would encourtage her to hold back until she is at least 18 if she wanted to go down the many partnered route, I did not have the level of maturity until then.

Saying all this, I don't have a daughter, so may change my mind completelt

I do have a dd, and I guess that's all one can hope for - that level of strength, maturity and responsibility in her sexual choices. Doubt it somehow though, with all the peer/media pressure etc.

your taking me the wrong way.. all i am saying is i think itis better to wait until you feel ready to have sex be in a relationship not just shag anyone you meet. O and by the way I have just got back from a girly week in kavos and i got plenty off offers for a shag so it isn't as if I aint got any admirers I just aint a dirty little slag!

Your choice of phrase is appalling, confrontational and somewhat childish Loulabelle

fifteen, angry and gorgeous NDP you do think highly of yourself - yeah right!

dillydally - i know its great! haha! but I only made my opinion clear and then was shot down for it! so therefore it gets into an argument.
wonder how many people on here have ten children with ten different men.

Loulabelle, I'm sorry but I think you should probably preview your posts before you post them...you can come across as a very immature, rude and offensive person who takes delight in upsetting and insulting others...

Um, k. I had a good time when I was younger, had some partners. My kids, however, are both fathered by one man, my husband.

Don't know of anyone on this board who actually has ten, though. Anyone? Anyone?

I have had seven partners and don't regret any of them

Oh, I only wish I'd had the confidence to think of myself as gorgeous at 15; good for you!

I was exagerating

"...aint a dirty little slag...."

How open minded! How educated! You should be applauded for your virtue.

Is it all right to be a clean little slag?

Or a dirty big slag?

Or a clean big slag?

Exactly which bit of it is wrong, then?

LLB222 Strikes again eh folks??

She does this to wind MN'ers up. Has said so on many occasions..... It amuses her.

So what if they have does that make them a bad person? Bad mother? Does it make you a better person?
Cos in my opinion saying that makes you a very judgemental, self righteous, naive, ignorant person.
But thats just my opinion, dont shoot me down for it.

Honestly people, she's a troll! She comes onto threads, insults people, starts an argument....... then when it gets all heated she usually ends with a "hahahahaaa look at you lot all wound. It makes me laugh".... or something along those lines.

Silly bint.

would change my MN name to dirtybigslag if I could only stop shagging long enough.

my total:
20 (!!!!!) sexually active years
4 longish relationships (including 8 year marriage)
2 one night stands
2 f**k buddies
1 bit on the side (not while married...)
1 casual but very sexual affair
no regrets EXCEPT one guy with whom I have incredible chemistry (my bf actaully) who I would love to go to bed with but couldn't hurt my dh like that.
btw, dh has had 3 partners including me and the sex is fabulous. number of partners is not necessarily the be all and end all - attentiveness, chemistry, gentleness, snesitivity etc etc all much more impt, imho.

Toothache you are soo right and I promised myself I wouldn't fall into "the trap" again....blame the hormones!

FWIW, I was ashamed of most of my sexual relationships, for about a year or so, especially when I first had ds1. Not too bothered now though, it's done!

troll? a bint? if I am that then what are you? so you would respect me more if i had slept with hundreds of men? I am sorry but I don't get around and one things for sure I didn't get a bucket crouch out of it!!

I was already worked up so its nice to have someone to take it on!! What with her and all the telesales calls i should be set now and the kids are saved for another day from my raging hormones

'Bucket crouch' - lovely image but I don't think it's the one she was aiming for.
Preview, spellcheck, submit (if you must).

Is a bucket crouch a baggy vagina?
I have not heard of this new fangled term.