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how many partners have you had?

352 replies

juice · 13/08/2005 14:14

just being nosy , so you dont have to answer if you dont want to.
i had 1 serious reltionship before hubby.
i have had sexual relations with 10 men.
sometimes i think it is too many , but then you hear some stories of young girls and i dont think its that many.
there is only 1 i regret, so aint too bad, i think.

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trefusis · 13/08/2005 21:33

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Mytwopenceworth · 13/08/2005 21:33

I can't remember.

Is that shocking??!!!

cheekymonk · 13/08/2005 21:34

I must be a very bad person as mine is almost 3 figures!! SOme were good, some were awful but some were fantastic!!! i am happily married and have been 100% faithful since I met my husband 6 and a half years ago!

Tortington · 13/08/2005 22:02

one

RnB · 13/08/2005 22:02

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cheekymonk · 13/08/2005 22:07

I know! I am not proud of it,but I was a carefree student at the time! Best one was the guy who said "Meet the viking" when his trousers were dropped!!!! Hee hee

RnB · 13/08/2005 22:09

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bubbaloo · 13/08/2005 22:12

just the 1-dh.been together 15 years and just had our ds.

sheepgomeep · 14/08/2005 23:57

two
my ex (I was aged 17 to 28)

My new boyfriend

Eugenius · 15/08/2005 00:14

1

fairlyoddparents3 · 15/08/2005 09:45

2 serious relationships b4 DH.
13 sexual relationships Inc DH, been married 6yrs.
1 that I regret having sex with(my first).
and 1 that I regret not trying to keep.

sweetheart · 15/08/2005 09:56

dh and I were each others first. We've both had others along the way.

Jimjams · 15/08/2005 09:57

meet the viking???? PMSL

HappyDaddy · 15/08/2005 10:23

2 sexual partners.

RachD · 15/08/2005 11:07

Bless, you are all so sweet !!
Nearly everyone here is still married to their first sexual partner !!

I only got married at 30
Had about 10 partners before my dh.
Didn't have sex till 21 - would have started alot earlier, given half a chance !!

Everyone I know started much earlier, has had many, many partners(i.e 30 or 40 partners) and I always was quite embarrassed as to how few I'd had.

I can't believe it !!!
I would have put money on this thread resulting in a very different conversation !!!
I thought this thread would be re 20, 30, 40 partners.
But it is more like just the one !!!

You are all such lovely girls !

Toothache · 15/08/2005 11:15

OMG I feel a bit like a slapper!
I've slept with 27 men in my 7 years of sexual activity before meeting DH.

Had 4 serious relationships (engaged 3 times....married once).
Of the remaining 23.... the vast majority were one night stands whilst at Uni!!! FANTASTIC!

RachD · 15/08/2005 11:31

Toothache - now that was much more like what I was expecting.
And I don't think you are a slapper at all.

Where are all the 40 year old mums who have slept with 40 people ???? - surely there are some on mumsnet....
And before I get hitched...
And there's nothing wrong with 40 partners at all - I would have if I could have ! -tee-hee!!!!!

Toothache · 15/08/2005 11:33

lol RachD. It might even be a bit more.... I kinda stopped counting.

RachD · 15/08/2005 11:37

When I said 10 toothache, ....
I can't remember off the top of my head - isn't that awful.
I've got them all written down - I will have to check - now, that's bad !!!!!

RachD · 15/08/2005 11:39

Come on girls
where are you ???
don't be shy.
Anyone 30 and above ???
Tell us how you managed it....

Toothache · 15/08/2005 12:01

RachD - I'm only 27.... so by the time I'm 30 I might have broken the 30 mark. Don't think DH would be too chuffed though!!!!

RachD · 15/08/2005 12:06

toothache....easy tiger, calm down !!!!
You don't count, you're only a wee wipper snapper of a trollope....

you just want to be a fully fledged trollope, but no, you can't include yourself in that category, I'm afraid !!!

Tee hee -

RachD · 15/08/2005 12:07

And what would you dh say ????
Sorry dh, I had to get to 30, that RachD told me to !!!!!

loulabelle222 · 15/08/2005 12:48

3 sexual partners including dp been with dp since i was 17 so 6 years faithful and truly in love. Wish I had waited for him

Toothache · 15/08/2005 12:50

RachD - Well he knows how much I value the opinion of MNer's!!