Play lube. What's the deal

[MabelStark]

so.... in an effort to really seem like I'm making an effort and to reward the many man hours that dp has spent at the coal face, so to speak, have decided that would actually like to perform oral on him - totally unasked for I might add. But, durng a drunken conversation I said "But you don't ever seem to want me to!" To which the answer was, "Off course I do, but if you don't want too..." Yada yada.
Well I doooo! So bought some Durex play lube (cherry) from Lovehoney. The question is how to introduce this interloper? If I do the biz can you put a condom over it (pre-climax)

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My absolutely favourite lube is Tracey cox super slippy love lube , it doesn't taste very nice at all but it's fab for mutual masturbation and sex though.
We found out quite by accident that durex tingle lube makes DH last a long time too, the tingle has a bit of a desensitising effect on him, an hour of heavy duty action isn't uncommon.

mal...its been recommended already upthread

I have it on regular order from LH

AF - links to lovehoney don't work. I've tried it before - It always comes up with page removed or somesuch nonsense.

I was thinking of trying a silicone lube next as they are meant to feel lovely but silicone lube translates in my head to WD40!

I see you are right re. LH links, mal

how strange

never heard of silicone lubes...will stick with good old Tracey Cocks

I havent used a lube before thought it would reduce the sensation but this thread has made me want to maybe try it.... if you only had access to boots which would you buy?

start with a plain one, spidey

like KY or similar

I don't like the ones with something added like "tingle" or "heat"

is the tracey cox one you mention called super sex love lube?

We have tried various types. The Durex ones are water- based and can vanish quite fast, but are good fun. Use Tingle sparingly!
DH bought a silicon based one- a little goes a long way and it is great, but it stays on your skin until you have a wash unlike the water based ones.

Boots do their own "silky" lube, haven't tried it but it's very cheap.
KY massage oil is nice and doubles up as lube.
Liquid silk from anne summers is good and long lasting too.

lol at Tracey cocks. That is DH's favourite, the bottle lasts for ages and we really slap it on .
I only discovered the joys of lube last year, I'd always thought it was for menopausal older ladies who needed "greasing" - the fist one I bought was Durex "feel" and it was a revelation, it really enhances things.

Go on ladies, lube him up, next to a blow job, it will be his favourite thing.

DO NOT EVER GARGLE WITH MOUTHWASH AND THEN GIVE A BJ!!!

Ask Shiney. I believe the chap ended up in A&E and there was talk of skingrafts....

I have a quick swish of mild cordosyl in a morning before getting jiggy, I do rinse with water first though!

Don't however, give oral attention after chewing an antacid, DH was not impressed with the chalky texture of my tongue!

Why do I always find myself giving sex advice when I haven't had sex for a week? This coil has got to go

yes spidey

Tracey Cocks...wonderful woman

This is the best flavoured lube in my somewhat considerable opinion.

I hate the tingle and heat lubes and anything that is supposed to sensitise/increase sensation/etc. It puts me right off!

Oh, grrr I was trying to link to the Juicy ID lube, its the only flavoured lube I've found that isnt too chemical-y.

...Talking of the Lovehoney site has anyone seen that "Sqweel" thing? WTF?!

I know clucky...weird innit

Oh dear, the SOM Hand Job Machine....

I spend untold hours showing DH he dubious delights of some of the toys on Lovehoney.

That squeel thing just looks "wrong" somehow, but then again, if you have no man (or lady friend) to do it for you, why not? It's not like you can do that yourself!

I want some sex, dammit! Got to wait until tomorrow. It's sample time, god help me.

mal, chill, fgs

That Sqweel thing looks like a freaking weapon or something?

I wouldn't mind trying it though...

has anyone tried the liquid silk lube thats on love honey..... dont know whether to get that one or the tracey cocks one?

not tried the silk one spidey...but should be ok

Liquid silk is fine, no real taste but it's opaque not clear, so a bit spunky looking.

bleaugh I know that lube is supposed to imitate... natural lube but really, a spunk-looking lube?!