Quick up-date, things didn't go as planned, we had unexpected guests arrive Friday evening so on Saturday I did the meal, soft lights, ate dinner in my slinkiest dressing gown, after the meal I stood up, DP sat on the sofa, I allowed my dressing gown to 'slip' off to reveal skimpy underwear. DP said "what do you think your doing?" to which I replied "going upstairs so you can do unspeakable rude things to me", (didn't want to risk ds walking in and catching us on the sofa).
I started to walk upstairs and realised that he wasn't following me, so I called out "are you coming?", he said "Supose so, in a minute, I just want to watch this programme, have a shower then I'll be there". !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I told him to forget it!!!! so I am still posting as shyNembarrased, not braveNfullfilled, its more like fedupNfrustrated!!!!!!