Need advice from a male perspective but am a single woman can anyone ask their other halves which is sexier under a skirt a thong or no knickers?

[arwen]

Have met a very nice man after being a single parent for years, we are getting on very well and is all new and exciting.I feel like surprising him tomorrow but am aware that often men and women find different things sexy and have no men to ask! can anyone help?

AF - you obviously don't pay much attention to names - I knew this wasn't a 15yr old - I've seen the name around on and off for years (well maybe it's not years - but it feels like it to me - it's nearly 11yrs of living with a man I only knew for 6 weeks before getting engaged ).

oh and btw OP - DH says no knickers (at bit late I know but meant to ask him on Friday and forgot........I also told him he'd be lucky )

ton of bricks ?

nah

just a little pointer to you, then we all talked about the merits of commando etc (and had fun in the process)

it is you that needs to lighten up arwen, I might start o think you protest too much....

By the way would deh laydeez get excited if a bloke told them he was riding commando ? I think I know the answer but thought that i'd check.

nope

nuh-huh

no way

thought as much. Hope this doesn't disturb your sleep. Night night.

Deffo no things - a nice pair of sexy / lacy type french knickers / pants are much sexier.

plenty of men go commando

even at this age I am learning new things

DH says no knickers too.

Depends on the outfit.

Pencil skirt, blouse and high heels - lacy thong and stockings/hold-ups

Short denim skirt - no knickers

Hope that was helpful!

def no knickers! I was in a n similar situation to you a year ago, and it went down a treat! And I felt v. sexy too, knowing I knew something he didn't, and had it left to reveal later!!!

I personally don't like thongs or find them sexy, but then I'm not a man lol. If either I'd say no pants :-|

But if it was me I'd be in my briget jones pants as I like comfort lol :-)

Don't forget to shave/wax

absolutely 2010Dad, must keep the lady garden neat and tidy lol :-)

my DP said thong (or rather 'tong' - he's irish

and then spent the next 10 minutes casting VERY suspicious glances my way..

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Ok, so I just asked dh and he said no knickers is too tarty, but when asked if there was a better alternative to thing he said 'hmm, crotchless?

Pmsl was he joking?
Tbh i wouldnt go no pants it is abit
and it might give out the wrong impression esp if things are still new. i would go thong unless the skirt was really short in that case i would go a longer skirt lol.

Was it for a dinner date or just to go around for pum-pum?

If a guy asked me on a 2nd date and I arrived with no knickers he would most probably think I was a bit of a whore. It depends if he is marriage material or just for fun

Can I ask, please, why the OP is supposed to have no self esteem?

I know this meant to be a light hearted thread but the self righteous tone of some posters is rather nasty smacks a little of bullying.

Arwen, glad you enjoyed your date and had a good time.

Oh, and what a shame women are using the word 'whore' to desribe other women in this day and age.

Now arwen.....what did you wear? Dare you tell us?

i dont know, she sounds like she knows exactly what she wants to me, i cant see any self esteem issues

Why is it called going commando? I've always wondered that. I would have thought that rufty tufty soldier types would need sensible underwear TBH.....

i was just pondering that too

ah, look here

From your link lou:

Going without underwear is said to have certain benefits. Dr. Caroline F. Pukall of Queen's University states that going without underwear while sleeping can have significant benefits to the vulva.[1]

OMg, you dont all slepp in your underwear do you? Is ir noraml? Am I the only one that thinks thats a bit grim?

Ohhh...I see, 'ready for action'