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Need advice from a male perspective but am a single woman can anyone ask their other halves which is sexier under a skirt a thong or no knickers?

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arwen · 04/09/2009 20:13

Have met a very nice man after being a single parent for years, we are getting on very well and is all new and exciting.I feel like surprising him tomorrow but am aware that often men and women find different things sexy and have no men to ask! can anyone help?

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ABetaDad · 04/09/2009 21:20

arwen - I am in the same camp as the DHs of oopsacoconut/NeverLeap.

Wear something nice, new and as expensive as you can afford. Matching bra and pants in a nice colour. Nothing too obvious and most important of all something you feel really comfortable and confident in.

AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:21

shiney, someone has to do it

and tonight, it is me

no offence, arwen

the most important thing is that you fuck his brains out

after that, what you are wearing will fade into insignificance

earlyriser · 04/09/2009 21:21

DH says don't wear no knickers "what if she has an accident and has to go to hospital"

Overmydeadbody · 04/09/2009 21:22

I like French Knickers best myslef

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Overmydeadbody · 04/09/2009 21:24

What a practical DH earlyriser!

Overmydeadbody · 04/09/2009 21:26

Shiny has a point. Maybe keep the knickerless scenario for later?

AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:27

omdb, that is what I was trying to hint at early on in this thread

sorta scaryyyyyyy to go straight for no knickers

BitOfFun · 04/09/2009 21:27

I guess a thong under a short denim skirt at age >35 is a no-go, ABD?

earlyriser · 04/09/2009 21:28

Yes, but kinda a passion killer no? I'd go for something that feels sexy next to your skin so you get a kick out of it too. It's not sexy if you are worried about leakage!!

BitOfFun · 04/09/2009 21:29

How about a coloured merkin? That should keep the chills at bay...

AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:29

BOF, don't judge others by your standards

AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:29

pmsl

AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:30

oh yesssss

I am not usually here on a fri night, but this could be bloody brilliant

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AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:32

how about a rainmac (yes, it is raining here again)

with nothing underneath

BitOfFun · 04/09/2009 21:33

Or, you could go for the comfort and practicality of big pants, but keep a little surprise if he goes for a grope?

AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:33

eww seepage

be careful of leaving a snail trail

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arwen · 04/09/2009 21:38

Thought I'd save the rainmac for a later date :-)Have always quite fancied that as well! Am a bit worried about seepage but have always fancied going out on a date sans pants and he is a great bloke to try it with because he is kind and we can laugh at anything so it won't be at all tawdry. If it's not a turn on for him it will be for me.What's not to like :-) might have been better to have thought about it earlier in the summer on our 2 hot days though.

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AnyFucker · 04/09/2009 21:41

lol arwen

how romantic it would be to slip a cock ring into his glass of champagne....

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