Friendship is going down the pan and I don't know why

[rickman]

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Sorry to hear about all of this rickman. FWIW I doubt she'll blab if only because she'll end up looking really bad and untrustworthy. As for her bag of stuff I'd just put on a brave smile, hold your head high and drop it round to her house. Don't forget - she's the one who has "issues", not you. If she says anything to you just say "Love to chat but I'm running late" and look on that as closure.

I wouldnt drop it round her house cos i think she may think its an excuse to come and see her which is fine if you wanted an excuse to go and see her but personally i would just text her if you have her number and tell her that her stuff is in a bag waiting for her to come and collect it and leave it at that.

Rickman, I know that you have gotten two different answers here, so I guess you really don't know what to do now! I know that you don't want to throw the things away. Is there any way that someone else could drop them off for you? I mean if you want to avoid her, maybe that would be best. Do you feel compelled to get the stuff our of your house to be "done" with it. Do you think she cares about these things? I don't know what she has left over there, if these things are easily replaceable, I would just put them in a plastic box for now and label it until you can find someone to drop the stuff by. You can put a note in the box saying you were just doing a "tidy-up" and thought she might be missing these things. What you do think?

What happened Rickman?