Thought people may be interested in the type of email I receive from my partner, who I have been involved with for 6 years. Nothing's been edited in his email except for our daughter's name. It's his reply to a 3 line email I sent him asking if he wants to pick up his daughter from creche (he hadn't seen her for nearly 2 months by then).
Just for the note, I don't have a 'turgid' past and he is free to see her whenever he likes, he doesn't work so complains at the £6 petrol costs him to drive to see her.
Two months after this email, we conceived our latest baby....an example of how women operate in relationships where domestic violence is involved....
I think I can be forgiven the 'invasion of privacy' for publishing his email.
no thank you
Sit down and get out your hanky
in 3 months time or perhaps 6 or maybe sooner, you will be going back to your turgid past, where you belong.
You don't deserve what you have and have had, what's more you are not, nor have you even ever been gratefull for any of it.
I don't like you, what little glimmer of goodness that occassionally shines through or the random act of kindness is swamped by your relentless selfish unrepentant knieving evil, you live in your little made up world where you can't distinguish truth from your contrieved fiction and believe you are the complete opposite to what you have actually become, you are nothing like the person I thought I met all those years ago, you have changed for the worse and continue on a downward spiral of greater despicability. Despite you believing people can't change, you are your own living proof that they can; and not always for the better. No-one that gets to know you is going to like you, your mind is locked in an illusionary state. Some people see through you straight away, while for others it takes longer, the majority you will fool always.
Nothing would give me greater pleasure, than if my daughter grows up, takes control of her own thoughts and uncoherced repeats to you what I'm telling you now.
There are plenty of derogatory names or terms for people like you, the common concensus or denominator being that you are unpleasant to be around, you are a turd in name only, if you were a real turd, I would flush you down the toilet with pleasure and relish in the newly aquired freshness that abounds in the air .
As much as I'd like to, I can't take away from your influence, or is that effluence.
I am not going to get emotianally attached to ** to be hurt even more by you at a later date.
I pity the poor girl, she was a perfect child, she should have been my child, to be brought up by a loving, caring family and stable home. Choosing you as a suitable partner was my stupid or compasionate mistake .
The pleasure of seeing at the weekend was the only thing I had to look forward to, you deciding that you can control when, where and how long for I can see her was your final mistake, I will settle for photographs of 14 happy months that I had with my daughter, you will never tell me what to do, where to go, what to think, wear or say, ever again.
You are both history, I will find myself a decent woman, not a difficult task, if decency is the only criteria then there are plenty around, with perhaps a ready made family, i.e. children, and I will enjoy their company as much as they will enjoy mine, we will live a happy peaceful, normal family life; live, love, laugh and play and have fun together, something that comes naturally to me, something you have always wanted but can only ever dream about in your fantasies, it will never happen for you because of the nasty, deluded, self-centred, inconsiderate person that you are and always will be.
Right now you are actually needed, because having any mother and a home is better than no mother at all, prior to this your existence was a waste of space and time in this universe, nevermind spoken words or written text that have been wasted on you, despite what you think or believe, I have been nothing but good to you and I have tried without success to influence you in the path of goodness for a long, long time and have given you considerably more chances to change for the better than anyone would have ever considered reasonable, I don't regret in the slightest hurting you with an email like this, I think you deserve far worse, however will not, for * sake, she deserves a chance, but needs some serious luck and willpower to resist the quagmire of deluded selfrighteousness that you carry in that damaged mind of yours.