i never thought i'd be in this situation. have ds1 who is 2 and new baby of 6 weeks. 2 weeks ago dh told me he saw me as a sister and didn't love me anymore. wtf! he moved out on monday and i've since found his phone bills which make it obvious he has been having an affair with girl at his work. he denies it but 165 texts and long 3 hr phone calls speak volumes to me. i only ever found 1 text on his phone from her so he must have been meticulous at deleting his texts/call logs. feel so fucking angry. while i was exhausted and getting on with being a good mum and heavily pregnant and running the house and business he was up to this! and now he's saying i threw him out!
no way i can forgive him for this. how does a legal separation work?