Do All Men Love and Need Blow-jobs?

[babypoo]

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Well do they? Seems to me like they do.

Toughdaddy will be along in a moment with a considered answer lifted straight from the online edition of the sydney morning herald....

A joke
A couple in marriage guidance counsellor's consulting room. So let's start with what you still have in common, says the MG counsellor. Silence for a moment and then the man pipes up Neither of us gives blow jobs any more

my previous partner didn't like them at all.

Agree Dadada- useful menu item but definitely not the be-all and end-all. Would swap it for 2 plain vanillas

That in the Herald tomorrow then?

I don't think men distinguish much between need and love. Women do - when it comes to sex acts I mean.

Men NEED first and love/enjoy second, sex acts like blow-jobs. But they need and love blow-jobs in particular. (I think.)

Why is it they want their partners to suck their willies? I mean, so desperately want it? Yes, women like it being done to them (mostly, some not) but all men want to see a woman's head bobbing up and down on their willies. Power thing? Medieval men dominating women thing? Or simply that willies are far more mental tools than emotional tools for men than we sucker [ wink] women will ever really know or understand?

Do you ever look at YouPorn? Go on, have a look...Every single man on woman scene involves, at some point, a women licking the blokes willy while staring at him like she's on heat, usually with an extra-terrestrial-sized tongue and the bloke sort of holding it and shoving/waggling it in her mouth. Like an ice-cream she is lucky to be having. It is such a bloody turn off.

I am not cross by the way. MMMonster, I agree with loving every part of someone's body and wanting to kiss it. But they always end up with gently putting their hand on the crown of your head and pushing you down there don't they....

babypoo- i feel i need to defend my fellow men: It doesn't have to end the way you describe above.

...the men you describe might have watched too much porn. There are better ways to go out.

Not forcing..lovingly, really strongly encouraging.

Like.. if I wanted him to bring me a cup of tea in bed I might lovingly/really strongly encourage it (if it was definitely my turn to bring the tea iykwim) and make him end up bringing me said tea.

It just so often turns to blow jobs for the bloke. As I say, like they are little lads with knob fetishes and want to see their partner sucking it.

God, even I am fed up with this now as actually, it's a personal, intimate thing really isn't it and all couples are different. I'll shut up.

It does bug the shit out of me though.

good point MMMonster. Night all

DP has never put his hand on the crown of my head and pushed me down there.

Do we have an abnormal sexual relationship? Should I be concerned?

You're not doing it right if you think a bloke gets a thrill from seeing your head bob up and down!

This is what I love about mumsnet. It puts the R back into Reality and always gives me lots to think about and re-evaluate. Thankyou. And of course, No. He should't have been pushing my bloody head down there.

May I ask, if you think a blow job is a power thing for a man, then what is cunnilingus for a woman?

i have only ever known one man who didnt like bj's

well, love, no. Need, also def. no. Rather enjoyable when it happens, but not the duck's dick of arousal techniques.....

whats good for the goode is good for the gander

in my house the gander doesn't like doing the goose

so the goose tells the gander to sod off.

For a woman it's much more about the man, your Lover, father of your babies etc, doing a Very Intimate Thing to you - ie getting really close, down and dirty and deciging himself that he wants to pleasure his dp kind of thing. For me anyway. It is so damn intimate.

It seems to me that for a man it is just fulfilling some primordial urge - a la Hugh Grant and thingy Brown.

But maybe it does not matter? Maybe that it is just the way men are and i's to be celebrated?

I just wish it wasn't so flippin obvious that I am left thinking, god, if a stranger in the street or a dog for that matter, offered him a blow-job he would jump at the chance. ie it is no more intimate for him than a double cheese-burger. Its just something he WANTS from someone.

rofl at Custardo