Do All Men Love and Need Blow-jobs?

[babypoo]

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Well do they? Seems to me like they do.

Toughdaddy will be along in a moment with a considered answer lifted straight from the online edition of the sydney morning herald....

If all it is for a woman is the fathere of her babies 'doing something intimate' then he's not doing it right either!

On many levels.

pmsl @ custy.

It's not just about the act IMO, it's the intimacy. Talked about it with DP, and we both feel oral sex is lovely, but only when you feel loved and accepted by your partner, not when it is grudgingly "performed". Otherwise I would just employ a dwarf with a long tongue.

Same issue in my house, custardo. Have never been able to get him to explain quite why. Is maddening!

I think its strange that people have such wierd ideas about blow jobs.

Its a fun thing to do to your man and I've never met a man who doesn't love it.

Spending some time spoiling him and making him feel like a god is loads of fun and will be handsomly rewarded.

As long as he does the same for me too!

Nothing demeaning or not intimate about that. But if a guy tried to shove my head or anything like that I would bite his willy off!!!

Go on ladies, have fun!!!!

all PMSL. totally agree with duke, (from the other perspective obv)

Well it's very heartening to know that couples are giving it to each other and enjoying it for all the right reasons. I like the idea of employing a dwarf.

These posts, as usual, have made me think again about what the hell I am on about. That's always a good thing.

I still think however... (am one of those boring stuck-record types you meet sliding down a wall in the Hat and Stick)..pass the lube.

Tell him that you want a '70'

You do me and I'll '0' you one.

Gingham what the hell are you still doing up?

Have you locked the back door, put the cat out and got yourself a drink??

I seem to be a dyslexicinsomniac. Am istening to Infinity on ipod. dancey dancey.

Yes they all seem to like blow jobs but top of my partners list is oral on me.....very keen !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Agree with what mmj said.

Dh has recently admitted that he is not bothered about them and prefers straight sex.

He thinks it's his catholic upbringing.

I don't think he is into the power-trip that seems to turn some men on.

With my DH yes and yes, but he's lucky in that its one of my favourite things to do anyways.

Babypoo your post on Sat 08-Nov-08 22:46:00 made me LOL!!!

I am not educated to answer this, as i have unfortunately not been with "all men"
My guess is..yes.

Interestingly my Darling DW really loves to play with me and give oral, so much so that she can almost orgasm from this alone. I guess that makes me a very lucky guy although given the choice I actually prefer to be inside her.

Better still, because the oral doesn't excite me so much (but I do enjoy), it does mean the whole love making episode can go on for a lot longer and with oral by both of us DW can have multiple orgasms.

Restricting yourself just to straight penetrative sex is missing a lot of fun!

Well, yes, sex is very important to most men. The penis is at the heart of a man's masculinity, and his masculine sexual essence.

Men perceive love in being given oral sex. Here's a great in-depth article about WHY Men Love Blow-Jobs:

www.thefemininewoman.com/2010/02/why-men-love-blow-jobs/#more-809

Men are not some great homogeneous blob, any more than women are. I'd be very surprised if there weren't a variety of preferences when it comes to sexual pleasure/pleasuring.

My dh has never been terribly keen on BJs, and I don't really like him going down on me either (just too intense). He is more of a nipple man, and I was recently told that many people don't find their nipples erogenous at all.

If you are not enjoying sex with your dh you need to do something about it as you really shouldn't be doing anything you don't like (at least on a regular basis, as opposed to when you feel like giving a bit of a treat to your lover) and you sound very pissed off.

This is a two year old post bumped by someone who is trying to publicise an article. Which I'm not going to read, because it's from a site called "The Feminine Woman" and mentions 'masculine sexual essence'.

oops that does sound very grim

Just noticed that this thread was resurrected (no pun intended) after a 15 month hiatus!
Oh well, it is an age-old question I guess!

Personally I LOVE giving blow-jobs, although DH is very grateful, has never actually asked me to do it and NEVER put his hand near my head (it might just spark a teeth-clamping reflex should he attempt that ).
As for the power thing, I think the ball's in the woman's court (oops another unintended Pun!), I really enjoy being responsible for his pleasure and find the whole thing really sexy and empowering and not degrading in the least.
DH is fond of reciprocating, too, (and his favourite is the simultaneous, but not very dignified 69) so maybe I'm just a lucky girl.

It's really difficult to adequately describe how wonderful it is to have an enthusiastic unsolicited BJ. so yes and yes. And I'm uncircumcised so it's even better (although obviously need to wash first)..
And reciprocation is just as nice.

The penis is at the heart of a man's masculinity, and his masculine sexual essence.

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NO SHIT SHERLOCK

I agree with yourenotsupposedtoblow