Do I need to wax before I send 'downstairs' nudes???

[gettingoutthere2027]

I've talked to a hot man on hinge

We're whatsapping

I've sent boob nudes but nothing of downstairs

I've been single for so long I dont bother shaving or waxing

Can I send a downstairs nude without waxing, do we think? Be honest please

Not a troll, I promise! Name changed for obvious reasons 🤣

Loads of "why just why do you want your grandmother to know you have a vulva???" replies which amounts to the same energy

I am in my mid forties and none of my friends are shocked by this so I do wonder what sort of issues Mumsnet posters have

What happened to feminism?

No, it’s not the same thing at all. Wanting women to think about sending images and who might see them does not equate to calling them slags in any way.

Exactly.

But also common sense.

There's no greater feminism than enjoying sex and your own body without feeling weird shame about it

What would your dad say if he saw your Waitrose biscuits receipt????

Like who gives a fuck

It's prudish to think women who do it are slags

Literally no-one has said that but you, are you projecting?

And what's wrong with being prudish if it stops OP being plastered all over the internet?

Who cares who sees them and why?

Is it particularly feminist to send pictures of your fanny to a random man on the internet? I must have been feminist-ing wrong.

Something I often wonder. Women are in a much much weaker position than they were several decades ago. It's really sad how women have been brainwashed to behave like this.

I think a lot of women would not like the idea of their private images being put online or shown to random men. Of course, some won’t care which is fine too, but it’s not slut-shaming to mention the risks.

I think a lot of women never enjoy sex and a second group stop enjoying it around 29 then never again

I am grateful to have enjoyed a fully rounded life tbh

You think that’s the height of feminism? I suggest you read a newspaper and some books.

Despite your best efforts to take over the thread, this isn't about you and your sex life.

No it isn’t. That’s my point. Op is asking what she should do to her body to make it acceptable to a man.

Oh does he have that internet that only downloads / accesses websites within a 10 mile radius then? Or does he have the same internet that everyone has that means he can share your photo with the entire fucking world?

How do you know it's his? Was his face included......could be any random off the internet 🛜!

I suggest you live a life for yourself instead of experiencing the world through books alone

That some internalised misogyny you got going on there. I enjoy sex and I’m waaaaaay older than 29. I just don’t see the joy in sending explicit photos to some hairy arsed geezer that I’ve not even met. I don’t think those who do are ‘slags’ (not a word I’ve used in many a year) but I do think it’s a tad weird.

Oh god I'm so shamed by your stern frown

Not really just feel sad for you

Well aren’t you the cool girl.

Okay upon the advice here

I will partake in a video call only!

True that the photos of his downstairs could be from porn - I don't think they are but will proceed with caution

I can't be bothered to wax. I'm overweight anyway and he didn't seem bothered, plus he knows how long it's been for me

i won't tell you lot that, too embarrassing

Please, as feminists, let me enjoy this hot man!!

I doubt they’re a girl at all.

I guess everyone needs a hobby; just slightly pathetic that this is yours.

If you don't wax or shave your minge when single - why the heck would you do something different for a man. You're an adult woman.

Enjoy away just think carefully before you send anything you can’t take back!