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Do I need to wax before I send 'downstairs' nudes???

94 replies

gettingoutthere2027 · Yesterday 21:39

I've talked to a hot man on hinge

We're whatsapping

I've sent boob nudes but nothing of downstairs

I've been single for so long I dont bother shaving or waxing

Can I send a downstairs nude without waxing, do we think? Be honest please

Not a troll, I promise! Name changed for obvious reasons 🤣

OP posts:
Saltysweetspicy · Yesterday 21:41

Why are you sending any nudes??

24Dogcuddler · Yesterday 21:41

Just don’t

AmazedinSpaces · Yesterday 21:41

Please don't do this! He does not need to have a photo of your private parts for wank material whether it is waxed or not. Can't you just organise to meet up and see whether you have chemistry?

FindingMeno · Yesterday 21:41

Ewww

Jtdoyoveme · Yesterday 21:42

Do not send nudes.

how old are you to be even thinking of sending them to someone you hardly know 🤮

Sparrowsandbudgies · Yesterday 21:42

Never send nudes. Ever.

Spicysenorita · Yesterday 21:42

Are you a bloke OP

LondonLass2026 · Yesterday 21:43

I don't know what Hinge is but what is the point of a fanny nude? They're ugly, waxed or bushy.

I guess you're just looking for a quick hook up if this is the way the chat is going?

AngelinaFibres · Yesterday 21:43

1.Never,ever put a photo out into the world that you wouldn't be happy for your mother to see.

  1. Why on earth are you contemplating ripping all the hair out of your privates . Grim
Waitingfordoggo · Yesterday 21:43

Don’t send photos of your vulva to a man you don’t know. Come to think of it, don’t send them to a man you do know. WTF are you thinking?

Cheese55 · Yesterday 21:44

Do not send. Ever.

GretaGip · Yesterday 21:44

No.

Don't.

DogDaysandAfternoons · Yesterday 21:45

Jesus Christ, downtown women actually do this? How would you feel if he shared them around?

pimplebum · Yesterday 21:45

He can turn you into deep fake porn

why ????

are you 16 ??????

NormalityIsOverrated · Yesterday 21:45

Troll. Obviously,

shhblackbag · Yesterday 21:45

Have a think about the fact that a random dude on Hinge will have nudes of you that he will then be able to do whatever he wants with, Including putting them online. That's regardless of what he tells you he'll do with them.

Wax or don't. That the least of the issues.

But maybe I'm just getting too old.

lljkk · Yesterday 21:46

what's left to the imagination ?

SeraphinaRainbird · Yesterday 21:46

I don’t know if you need to wax but I do think that you need your head examined.

PurpleLovecats · Yesterday 21:47

Yeah I don’t think this is real.

Userengage · Yesterday 21:48

Lovely, he can use your profile picture to put a fanny to a face.

PashaMinaMio · Yesterday 21:48

Do you have the IQ of a geranium?

Do you get a thrill out of thinking he might share your vulva with his mates or the internet?
STOP!

We’re all warning you & advising not to do it.
Think about the consequences. Just don’t.

Thunderdcc · Yesterday 21:48

How do you know he is who he says he is and isn't going to blackmail you? Meet him before you send nudes!

BeautifulLittlePumpkin · Yesterday 21:48

He doesn’t need to see your Fanny. That’s all I have to say.

gettingoutthere2027 · Yesterday 21:49

Omg I didn't think this many people would respond

Oh wow, apparently nudes aren't the done thing 🤣

I'm not trying to marry him!

OP posts:
sesquipedalian · Yesterday 21:49

What have I just read? Is this even real? What self-respecting woman would take that sort of pic of herself? I thought this was the sort of thing that teenagers were groomed into doing by sleazeball men - not something a grown woman would do for some recent hook-up on the web. I tell you, Op (assuming this really isn’t a troll post) you will live to regret it.