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Do I need to wax before I send 'downstairs' nudes???

83 replies

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:39

I've talked to a hot man on hinge

We're whatsapping

I've sent boob nudes but nothing of downstairs

I've been single for so long I dont bother shaving or waxing

Can I send a downstairs nude without waxing, do we think? Be honest please

Not a troll, I promise! Name changed for obvious reasons 🤣

OP posts:
Moros · Today 21:49

Don't shave it. Get it permed and dyed leopard print. Guaranteed to drive him wild.

PickAChew · Today 21:49

Why are you trusting a stranger with nude pictures of yourself?

SeptemberRains · Today 21:50

Why the coy language @gettingoutthere2027

CurdinHenry · Today 21:50

Mumsnet is very prudish about nudes

V Bwitish

I would say up to you - apparently gen z is going back to natural

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:50

Spicysenorita · Today 21:42

Are you a bloke OP

I promise, I am not. Being very genuine. Very surprised by the overwhelming 'dont send nudes at all' in all honesty

OP posts:
littlefireseverywhere · Today 21:51

Definitely up to you to decide what to do with your bush.

Do not send nudes.

Keepingtimer · Today 21:51

Just why on earth would a grown woman do this! Revolting.

titchy · Today 21:51

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:49

Omg I didn't think this many people would respond

Oh wow, apparently nudes aren't the done thing 🤣

I'm not trying to marry him!

Do you want your boss, your kid’s teacher and your dad to see your minge? If you’re ok with that, go ahead.

CurdinHenry · Today 21:51

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:50

I promise, I am not. Being very genuine. Very surprised by the overwhelming 'dont send nudes at all' in all honesty

I think it speaks to the self loathing a lot of women suffer under

Surprising number of women won't even be naked around their husbands

It's just a body, ladies!

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:52

PashaMinaMio · Today 21:48

Do you have the IQ of a geranium?

Do you get a thrill out of thinking he might share your vulva with his mates or the internet?
STOP!

We’re all warning you & advising not to do it.
Think about the consequences. Just don’t.

I've been insulted before, but never like this 🤣🤣🤣

Maybe I do have the iq of a geranium 🤣

OP posts:
Minasama · Today 21:52

If you need to ask this question you are not mature and strong enough to face the potential adverse consequences of someone having nude photos of you.

Just have some self respect and don’t send any.

DogDaysandAfternoons · Today 21:52

CurdinHenry · Today 21:50

Mumsnet is very prudish about nudes

V Bwitish

I would say up to you - apparently gen z is going back to natural

It’s not prudish, it’s sensible. You just can’t be sure they won’t get shared around or posted online without your consent, especially when you’re sending them to someone you barely know on a dating app.

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:52

titchy · Today 21:51

Do you want your boss, your kid’s teacher and your dad to see your minge? If you’re ok with that, go ahead.

He isn't local. And I've seen his. Very impressive, I must say

OP posts:
byedriver · Today 21:52

Hairy. Tampon string hanging out. Fag in hand in pic too. Iconic.

CurdinHenry · Today 21:53

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:52

I've been insulted before, but never like this 🤣🤣🤣

Maybe I do have the iq of a geranium 🤣

Well I'm smart as fuck and I like my image being appreciated

I guess various hackers have probably seen my "minge" but there we are

MrsPernicious · Today 21:53

Hello Op it is 2026.
We have learnt that sending anyone downstairs nudes is about as sensible as posting the same pics on MN. If you wouldn't be happy to see said pic projected on the side of your local sports centre - don't do it.

EmailsaysOOO · Today 21:53

Why- just why?

IsThePopeCatholic · Today 21:54

OMG
This is one of the saddest and most troubling threads I’ve come across.

CurdinHenry · Today 21:54

DogDaysandAfternoons · Today 21:52

It’s not prudish, it’s sensible. You just can’t be sure they won’t get shared around or posted online without your consent, especially when you’re sending them to someone you barely know on a dating app.

It's fine not to want to

Highly subjective, sexual arousal

It's prudish to think women who do it are slags

Ishehe · Today 21:54

Top tip- keep your fanny to yourself 🤣🤣😅

DogDaysandAfternoons · Today 21:54

CurdinHenry · Today 21:54

It's fine not to want to

Highly subjective, sexual arousal

It's prudish to think women who do it are slags

Literally no one has said that women who do it are slags?

gettingoutthere2027 · Today 21:54

SeptemberRains · Today 21:50

Why the coy language @gettingoutthere2027

Trying not to act like a man would, was genuinely after advice!

OP posts:
byedriver · Today 21:55

IsThePopeCatholic · Today 21:54

OMG
This is one of the saddest and most troubling threads I’ve come across.

Is it your first day?

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · Today 21:56

If you have to ask the answers no don't wax and no don't send them, for all the reasons given above.

Bloody hell, I'm glad I'm old.

Boopsi · Today 21:56

What a depressing post.