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Chip Pisser's Corner - IYKYK

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BigSpongyHelmet · 24/09/2026 07:03

Thought I'd do a little update for all of those invested in my other thread, which I'm not linking!

Tonnes of messages Monday /Tuesday and a phone call at Tuesday lunchtime then all quiet; I messaged him early Tuesday afternoon with a choice of 3 restaurants for the Friday evening and nothing, zilch, nada...guess he didn't fancy any of the them 😆

Bit disappointed but it's fine, I saw something I liked, I went for it, it didn't work out, that's life. Thank you, next!

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Boreded · 29/10/2026 13:33

BigSpongyHelmet · 29/10/2026 13:31

A little update on the old school friend meet up, it's a total non-starter. He was perfectly nice up to and during the coffee 'date', little hug/peck on the cheek to say goodbye, got home and received a text saying, and I shit you not, "it was really good to see you, I have to admit I wasn't listening to a lot of what you said as I was thinking about fucking you the whole time", followed by a winky emoji

Speechless was not the word

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Yuck…they’re absolutely grim some men aren’t they 🙄

cabus · 29/10/2026 13:49

BigSpongyHelmet · 29/10/2026 13:31

A little update on the old school friend meet up, it's a total non-starter. He was perfectly nice up to and during the coffee 'date', little hug/peck on the cheek to say goodbye, got home and received a text saying, and I shit you not, "it was really good to see you, I have to admit I wasn't listening to a lot of what you said as I was thinking about fucking you the whole time", followed by a winky emoji

Speechless was not the word

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That's so bad it made me laugh OP. Sorry.x

Additup · 29/10/2026 13:51

BigSpongyHelmet · 29/10/2026 13:31

A little update on the old school friend meet up, it's a total non-starter. He was perfectly nice up to and during the coffee 'date', little hug/peck on the cheek to say goodbye, got home and received a text saying, and I shit you not, "it was really good to see you, I have to admit I wasn't listening to a lot of what you said as I was thinking about fucking you the whole time", followed by a winky emoji

Speechless was not the word

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WTF 😂😂😂
That is definitely the sort of thing you keep to yourself.

Beaniebobbins · 29/10/2026 18:11

Ha ha, the worst dates make the best stories.

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BigSpongyHelmet · 29/10/2026 22:06

Glad it gave you a laugh, I'm still a bit 😮 about it! There was no hint of anything during the 'date', no suggestive banter or anything so I was so not expecting a message like that.

He was such a shy little thing at school too 😆

I think that I'm not going to agree to any more dates/meet ups for a while...probably safest option, I do seem to attract the loonies

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GlobalTravellerbutespeciallyBognor · 29/10/2026 22:22

Dear God.

Is there a local stamp collection club you could join?

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BigSpongyHelmet · 29/10/2026 22:26

GlobalTravellerbutespeciallyBognor · 29/10/2026 22:22

Dear God.

Is there a local stamp collection club you could join?

Grin
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SunnyLilacFawn · 29/10/2026 22:34

Did you reply?

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BigSpongyHelmet · 29/10/2026 22:54

SunnyLilacFawn · 29/10/2026 22:34

Did you reply?

No, I mean, what do you even say to that...thanks?!

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