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Do you think it’s likely to happen?

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thenoetel · 24/08/2026 17:19

I am meeting a guy next Monday bank holiday for our 3rd date. He has suggested a wine and cheese evening with a walk near his house. We get on well and text each other a fair bit. Does this mean that sex is likely to happen or am I getting the wrong idea?

posting another thread because the other only got one reply

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lilkitten · 29/08/2026 12:16

IME as it's the third date and he's asked you round to his, I guess he might be, but it depends on him. With my DP he was anxious to ask for sex, so I think it was about the sixth date that I suggested I go to his and I was the one who instigated it. Home date probably indicates he's interested. But of course it depends what you want, and if you want that yet. If it were me I'd just ask him what he's thinking.

foursquares · 29/08/2026 17:31

Shergarsauntie · 25/08/2026 18:20

What's wrong with this? Only Dinner at the Ritz acceptable to you? Blimey we're not all high maintenance y'know

Not about being high maintenance, just being easy..

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