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Do you think it’s likely to happen?

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thenoetel · 24/08/2026 17:19

I am meeting a guy next Monday bank holiday for our 3rd date. He has suggested a wine and cheese evening with a walk near his house. We get on well and text each other a fair bit. Does this mean that sex is likely to happen or am I getting the wrong idea?

posting another thread because the other only got one reply

OP posts:
SunflowerPicking · Yesterday 18:58

Shergarsauntie · Yesterday 18:20

What's wrong with this? Only Dinner at the Ritz acceptable to you? Blimey we're not all high maintenance y'know

Glad I’m not the only one wondering this! I’ve never really done the dating scene, but if I did, a wine & cheese evening with a walk would be my idea of an ideal date tbh! (And yes OP, I’d definitely be shaving my legs in anticipation of what might happen after that!)

Twogreenbottles · Yesterday 19:06

Shergarsauntie · Yesterday 18:20

What's wrong with this? Only Dinner at the Ritz acceptable to you? Blimey we're not all high maintenance y'know

I don't think it's high maintenance to be taken out for a meal by date 3 and then a film, bowling, art gallery, show etc for the next few dates.
Does he even like you OP, has he said so ? More importantly do you like him?

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