Orgasms - anyone ever faked one?

[lovenotwar149]

This has probably been asked before. I'm very curious to know, if people are willing to share this info that is.

And also to the men on here - how would you feel is a woman did this?

Why don't you post this in the Sex topic?

oh is there such a topic? I didnt know

Yes and I was asked to leave Woolworths.

Thats VERY funny indeed!!!!!

😂

God yeah. I had a boyfriend when I was 15 was fucking awful at anything remotely sexual but weirdly had a massive ego about it too. Faked them all, never had a single orgasm in 18 months of a relationship.

had a couple of short term relationships and situationships after that where I would also fake them just to avoid the awkwardness of the ‘have you finished yet?’ 🤣

Met DH at 17, only ever faked one with him after our first was born because everything felt weird and different and I couldn’t think of anything else other than how different it felt. Felt guilty after so told DH. No issues since, 12 years later😆

Oh thx for that info. Very interesting

Why do I feel like this is going to be an article in the daily fail, or the mirror tomorrow?

I guess one has to sound quite convincing too....maybe some practice needed - loool

😂

looool

What's the point of faking it? I enjoy good sex. I don't enjoy bad sex. Faking orgasms encourages more of the latter. I honestly don't care enough about any bloke's ego to do this to myself.

you make a good point

Have you always thought this way? Because this is how I think now. But when I was younger I definitely had an element of I guess shame/embarrassment that I couldn’t be made to orgasm in 3 whole minutes.. which is pretty unrealistic but I wasnt exactly very knowledgable in the subject back then 🤣 so I was a people pleaser.

I haven't ever faked one. On the occasions when I haven't been able to orgasm , when younger I thought it was my problem interestingly and would be embarrassed because of that , I didnt think it was 'his' issue.
Now, usually no problem having one, but if it doesn't happen , it doesn't happen and thats ok with me

I think I'd be nervous to fake it because I think it would be obvious. Maybe I need to watch 'When Harry met Sally ' again!!!!

No. When I was younger, honestly, the blokes I shagged didn't care if I had one, so I didn't pretend. A couple of older men I've been with as an older woman have made comments about needing clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but I'm fucked if I'm being told how I should come from a person without a clitoris. Plus, a key tell that their previous partners have faked for them!

but I'm fucked if I'm being told how I should come from a person without a clitoris.

Best line yet!!!!! Loool!

Surprisingly, I did always feel this way. I can honestly say I have never faked an orgasm.
With long term partners, there was always an understanding that sometimes we just have a whole afternoon of foreplay simply to connect and it doesn't need to lead to orgasm at all. Mine or theirs.

An ex wouldnt/couldn't cum until after I had, sometimes I just had to fake it. The sex was good but sometimes it just doesnt happen.

Ooh interesting. I can only orgasm if I position myself on top and that has been the case with several partners. I’ve often wondered if I am just this way regardless of the partner or if I haven’t met anyone particularly skilled! Watching with interest.

I always fake 😳 i had not realised this was not the norm… i am shocked….
maybe 9 times out of 10 i will fake because it is not that good….

Some women can't have orgasms so do fake all the time. Interesting topic, you wouldn't believe how many don't know what an organism is, even self tried.

I have never faked an orgasm in my entire life.. which im strangely quite proud of.
I think im proud because there's moments I had less self respect in order to please a man in my younger years.. but at least I never stopped so low as to pretend to have an orgasm.