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Orgasms - anyone ever faked one?

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lovenotwar149 · 06/01/2026 19:52

This has probably been asked before. I'm very curious to know, if people are willing to share this info that is.

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ConcernedOfClapham · 09/01/2026 10:25

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 06/01/2026 19:54

Yes and I was asked to leave Woolworths.

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 10:25

July2026 · 09/01/2026 10:24

Spot on. Excuse the pun!

Would a man ever fake one? I think we all know the answer to that. No woman should either. And yes, the majority of men find it easier/quicker than some women, but I don't think the few that struggle could care less what we were feeling! I am lucky in that I've never not been able to get there with my husband, but I wouldn't fake even if I couldn't.

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Here here!

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July2026 · 09/01/2026 10:26

@lovenotwar149 I've never had sex with someone I wasn't in a relationship with (in fact my body count is 1!), so I've always felt confident enough to say to my DH 'faster, slower, lighter' etc!

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 10:27

Sometimes it's just easier to get your vibrator out and HIT THE SPOT ALL BY YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!! loool!!!

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 10:28

July2026 · 09/01/2026 10:26

@lovenotwar149 I've never had sex with someone I wasn't in a relationship with (in fact my body count is 1!), so I've always felt confident enough to say to my DH 'faster, slower, lighter' etc!

Well done! Thats the way to get what you want ,what you really really want!!!!

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July2026 · 09/01/2026 10:29

lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 10:27

Sometimes it's just easier to get your vibrator out and HIT THE SPOT ALL BY YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!! loool!!!

Even in a committed relationship where the sex is great, there is still space for a vibrator, definitely! I dont think many partnered men hesitate to have fun alone time when they get the opportunity either!

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 10:31

July2026 · 09/01/2026 10:29

Even in a committed relationship where the sex is great, there is still space for a vibrator, definitely! I dont think many partnered men hesitate to have fun alone time when they get the opportunity either!

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I'm with you on that completely!!!! In fact my hubby quite likes it when I tell him I have had some 'alone time.'
Of course I dont tell him every time!! Lol!!

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Grammarninja · 09/01/2026 10:35

Once or twice in 15 years with my husband. Purely because he's been ready to go all night to get me there, doing anything I'd like but I know it's not going to happen, I've started to chafe and am very ready to give up. It's one of those white lie situations.

bluedabadeedabadoo · 09/01/2026 11:08

lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 10:25

Re "hitting the spot" , I am now wondering how many women are brave enough to say ....down a bit/L a bit/R a bit etc when that SPOT isn't quite being hit!!!
And is that in fact brave , or just something that needs to be said.....

I previously wouldn’t but in my new situation have and it’s been greatly received by both of us. I’ve told him when to use his hands, when to go harder and repeated ‘don’t stop, keep going’ repeatedly 🤣

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 11:10

bluedabadeedabadoo · 09/01/2026 11:08

I previously wouldn’t but in my new situation have and it’s been greatly received by both of us. I’ve told him when to use his hands, when to go harder and repeated ‘don’t stop, keep going’ repeatedly 🤣

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Well done!!! Go you!!!!

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 11:10

Just dont call out the wrong name!!!!

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W0tnow · 09/01/2026 11:17

lovenotwar149 · 07/01/2026 14:07

I took it on the chin ,was a little embarrassed , but got over that quickly. No as quickly as he came tho....looool

You took it on the chin? That was nice of you.

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lovenotwar149 · 09/01/2026 11:19

W0tnow · 09/01/2026 11:17

You took it on the chin? That was nice of you.

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😂
I think I got that!!

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