M few days ago, i finally booked my breast reduction op. (see my other threads!) dh has arraanged to take 3 wks off This is the only time of year dh can take 3 weeks off . Then yesterday, his mum called to say his brother is getting married - on the same day as my op!!!! This was completely unexpected and dh has told his mum that i'm having an op that day so we won't be able to go. I feel really guilty about it but if i cancel my op, i'll have to wait another year (because of dh's time off work)Dh isn't close at all to his brother and can go only see him when we see his mum and dad. Never calls him and went years not seeing him at all. Not because they don't get on, just because they're very different and have nothing in common! Should i cancel my op??