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Ultimate breakup songs

179 replies

Mushroomride · 20/02/2025 17:54

Which song most conveys the feeling of how you felt after your breakup?

I don’t forgive you - Isabel LaRosa

So satisfying somehow, doesn’t make me sad at all.

Baby, is she really everything you need?
It's crazy, think you love her after just two weeks
You hate me 'cause you know I'm not that easy
I hope she breaks your heart so casually
I don't forgive you
I don't forgive you
I still fucking miss you
But I don't forgive you
Trust me, I'm in every other girl you'll meet
You see that god'll bring you back to me
Baby, I hope you think she'll never leave
And then she'll break your heart so casually
I don't forgive you
I don't forgive you
I still fucking miss you
But I don't forgive you
You drive away
I guess today's the last I am seeing your face
I don't forgive you
I don't forgive you
I still fucking miss you
But I don't forgive you

OP posts:
Comparethemarket · 20/02/2025 18:02

Gotye - Somebody that I Used to Know

devildeepbluesea · 20/02/2025 18:03

50 Ways to Leave your Lover

Crushed23 · 20/02/2025 18:04

My break-ups were boring 'we're not right for each other' break-ups. But I love break-up songs - in a parallel universe I took more relationship risks and lived the angst and drama depicted in these songs.

Favourites include:

You Oughta Know - Alanis Morissette
Dancing on my own - Robin
Irreplaceable - Beyonce

abcdefu - Gayle

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 20/02/2025 18:04

Miranda Lambert, Tin Man

It's her singing to Wizard of Oz tin man telling him having a heart is no fun at all 😢

FlowerUser · 20/02/2025 18:09

You Oughta Know - Alanis Morissette

This captured the angry when my exDH left me for my exBFF.

Don't Speak - No Doubt

And this captured the hurt.

BackinBlack24 · 20/02/2025 18:15

alanis morissette - you ought to know

MarkWithaC · 20/02/2025 18:22

Alanis Morissette, Your House. Hidden track on Jagged Little Pill.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 20/02/2025 18:23

Must have been lovely by Roxette

Here without you - 3 doors down

Crushed23 · 20/02/2025 18:29

MarkWithaC · 20/02/2025 18:22

Alanis Morissette, Your House. Hidden track on Jagged Little Pill.

I LOVE this. I remember letting the CD run and discovering it - I was so thrilled!

justusandthecat · 20/02/2025 18:38

You should be sad by Halsey
I hope you're miserable until you're dead by Nessa Barrett.

It was not an amicable split.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 20/02/2025 18:40

Comparethemarket · 20/02/2025 18:02

Gotye - Somebody that I Used to Know

Listen to the first few bars.
It's baa baa black sheep.
Sorry have i ruined it for you now 😂 I can't listen to it anymore because of that 😂

MarkWithaC · 20/02/2025 18:40

Crushed23 · 20/02/2025 18:29

I LOVE this. I remember letting the CD run and discovering it - I was so thrilled!

My best friend and I were dumped at the same time and spent WAY too much time listening to it. In the end he declared that we needed to resist and stop wallowing in it Grin

NellyTimes · 20/02/2025 18:41

Jar Of Hearts by Christina Perri. Heard it a lot when I left my exh, it hit very hard and felt very empowering at the time.

category12 · 20/02/2025 18:46

You're history by Shakespears Sister

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LqXICXpquf8

Arrggghhhhhh · 20/02/2025 18:47

devildeepbluesea · 20/02/2025 18:03

50 Ways to Leave your Lover

That’s a fucking excellent song.

LadyLucyWells · 20/02/2025 18:49

Always been Vision of Love (Mariah Carey) for me!

Arrggghhhhhh · 20/02/2025 18:49

If you leave me now you’ll take away the biggest part of me.. Ooohhoooohh baby please don’t go…ad infinitum

PaperAeroplane · 20/02/2025 18:50

I will add sways love you, Whitney Houston.

KohlaParasaurus · 20/02/2025 18:51

Gonna get along without you now, Viola Wills.

Acornsoup · 20/02/2025 18:53

Vampire - Olivia Rodrigo 🤌🏼

Neverendingdeclutter · 20/02/2025 18:54

Lady A- What if I never get over you

TipsyJoker · 20/02/2025 18:56

I hate you so much right now - Kelis

Its over - Roy Orbison

It looks like I’ll never fall in love again - Tom Jones

PheasantPluckers · 20/02/2025 18:56

Loved Jagged Little Pill, but had no idea about the hidden track! It was the soundtrack of my teens. Loved Don't Speak too!

So many gems here already but adding my 2 cents: Ruin by The Pierces. Fab band IMO that never really got much recognition!

Starlingstar29 · 20/02/2025 18:57

I really need these right now, please keep them coming - especially the Alanis style suggestions! I'm been wallowing in recent break up sadness with a carefully curated playlist of tear jerkers but feel I may be ready to embrace the rage and sing very loudly...

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