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Do all middle aged men look at young girls on instagram?

94 replies

19Questions · 18/11/2024 14:30

DH56 follows an account called OfficeCutey or something like that, which I've looked at, and she's 20 - 21 at the most. Massive boobs. Do they all do this? To answer the obvious question, no he hasn't made his account private, and I'm not sure he realises people (including his sister who follows him) can see what he looks at.

OP posts:
PauliesWalnuts · 18/11/2024 14:36

Of the three middle aged men I know none have Insta. Two have also just come off Twitter due to Elon Musk. In my experience they aren’t really bothered about social media full stop.

Bridgetomalley · 18/11/2024 14:47

Only the sleezy ones who view women merely as sex objects.

helgel · 18/11/2024 14:48

OfficeCutey would only be of interest to DH if it was running in the 2.30 at Haydock. I would be extremely unhappy if he was following attractive young women online.

yeesh · 18/11/2024 14:49

No, only the pervs

HollyGolightly4 · 18/11/2024 14:49

No. Only the misogynistic arseholes.

HowDoYouSpellThat · 18/11/2024 14:51

Yeah my DP doesn't have social media, never has. Although, I'm pretty sure he watches porn, like almost every single man.

DaisyChain505 · 18/11/2024 14:51

Ew a nearly 60 year old man perving over girls who are barely out of their teens and young enough to be his granddaughter.

MermaidEyes · 18/11/2024 14:52

helgel · 18/11/2024 14:48

OfficeCutey would only be of interest to DH if it was running in the 2.30 at Haydock. I would be extremely unhappy if he was following attractive young women online.

Mine would only be interested if it involved science or woodworking 😆

TwistedWonder · 18/11/2024 14:53

Only the sort of deluded sieazy old creeps who are on OLD trying to pull women 20 years their junior and getting abusive when they get knocked back.

MysteriousUsername · 18/11/2024 14:55

No. The only young females my DP follows are either related to him or take part in one of his hobbies, so post loads of pics about them, none of which involve not wearing many clothes.

WokeKarenHereAskMeAboutStuff · 18/11/2024 14:59

HowDoYouSpellThat · 18/11/2024 14:51

Yeah my DP doesn't have social media, never has. Although, I'm pretty sure he watches porn, like almost every single man.

I don’t understand how porn is any better.
It’s actually much worse I’d say.
Well, it’s all creepy and misogynystic tbf.

midgetastic · 18/11/2024 14:59

No

vodkaredbullgirl · 18/11/2024 15:00

Sleezy, hope you confronted your OH.

Blinkingbonkers · 18/11/2024 15:00

Nope, only sleazy grim ones… sorry.

ItGhoul · 18/11/2024 15:39

I'm fairly certain that pretty much all middle-aged men still find women (or men) in their 20s attractive. I don't think any man suddenly passes the age of 40 and magically ceases to find beautiful, fit, firm bodies sexy to look at.

That doesn't mean they would necessarily actively follow them on Instagram though.

GarrynotsoGorilla · 18/11/2024 15:49

I'm a guy, not far from that age. I wouldn't do that. Due to a very poor sex life I do occasionally use porn though. I wouldn't however find myself looking at scantily clad women on insta. Or use Insta for that matter.

FierceQuiet · 18/11/2024 15:50

HowDoYouSpellThat · 18/11/2024 14:51

Yeah my DP doesn't have social media, never has. Although, I'm pretty sure he watches porn, like almost every single man.

Almost every single man doesn't you know. That's one of those weird Mn0isms aimed at convincing individuals that they haven''t chosen poorly.

usernother · 18/11/2024 15:50

We don't really have any idea what men look at. If they are clever they'll make sure what they get up to is hidden. They are sneaky

Beamur · 18/11/2024 15:52

No.
Pretty sure DH still finds women attractive generally but his internet usage is around his hobbies and interests

NewName24 · 18/11/2024 16:01

Bridgetomalley · 18/11/2024 14:47

Only the sleezy ones who view women merely as sex objects.

^

DramaAlpaca · 18/11/2024 16:05

Mine doesn't have insta. He'd only be interested in things relating to cycling or rugby anyway. I'm 99.9% sure he doesn't watch porn either, thank god.

BobbyBiscuits · 18/11/2024 16:08

I'd say it's not that normal for married men to follow much younger women simply as I'd imagine their wives wouldn't be too happy. If single, then maybe? They clearly still fancy 20yo girls, and many would use porn featuring women round that age. So I guess it's probably a bit of a thing. But not among any man I'd ever want to be with.

ThatCoralShark · 18/11/2024 16:29

Sorry op no, that’s not the norm, just your Pervy husband. I couldn’t cope with my husband looking at women young enough to be his Daughter or grand in that way. My husband does have insta,but he barely uses it, and he doesn’t use it to perv.

ThatCoralShark · 18/11/2024 16:31

Is it office cutie pie? I just looked. Yeah that’s not ok.

ByHardyRubyEagle · 18/11/2024 16:33

A nearly 60 year old on Instagram is an uncommon sight to be honest, but as an aside, let’s assume that these women are in fact at least the legal age of consent, I would say that most hetero men do look at other women, regardless of age. If it happens to be a specific interest of his then I wouldn’t be happy about that, no.

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