(DON'T) LTB

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Petty thread

What does your partner do that gives you that couple of seconds rage 😡

It can be over in seconds and doesn't mean you have to LTB but in those 2 seconds you would happily trade them in 😂

Mine used to do the leaving drawers and cupboards open thing, but has commendably addressed it since I told him it drove me insane😅the main remaining issue is lateness. Not drastic lateness, just perennial always-being-a-bit-later-than-he-says-he'll-be. We don't live together yet and when he's on his way over to mine he has a habit of messaging me announcing he's about to leave. But he never actually leaves then. He faffs around, packing stuff into the car, going back to get stuff he forgot, turning off lights and heaters, going to the bathroom... sometimes this process can take in the region of 45 minutes. Then I get a text saying he's ACTUALLY left. In the meantime I've been all anticipatory and then get pissed off knowing it'll be another hour before he arrives. Even more annoyingly, he is very good at defusing my petty annoyance and I never seem to be able to stay angry...some people.