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Is this conversation a red flag between exs ?

113 replies

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 18:26

the guy I’m dating ex girlfriend posted a quote on her story saying “she’s hard to replace, and unforgettable, hard to come bye”. He responded to her quote and texted her saying “yea yea yea” . she responded saying “you know it” then he said “mmh idk”. She then replied saying “you know you still like me” and he responded saying “how are you so sure” ….

why did he even comment on her post saying that?

OP posts:
user1471442488 · 06/07/2024 18:27

Because he’s an immature child? Throw this one back.

MounjaroUser · 06/07/2024 18:28

Yes, chuck him back. They're flirting with each other.

NotAgainWilson · 06/07/2024 18:30

She seems like a properly deranged ex marking her territory.

Were they married AND have children together? If so, run away, having a psycho calling the shots using her kids as pawns is a proper life long shit show you would like to avoid.

GreigeO · 06/07/2024 18:32

Yes

HarryKanesDrool · 06/07/2024 18:39

I remember when I was 13 as well

pinkyredrose · 06/07/2024 18:41

Is he 16?

sentfrmmyiphone · 06/07/2024 18:41

Oh god how old are you all?

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 18:53

All 23

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Rondel · 06/07/2024 18:57

HarryKanesDrool · 06/07/2024 18:39

I remember when I was 13 as well

Exactly.

Fortunately in my case it was pre-Internet, so we just scribbled PAUL+LISA4EVER on walls.

HarryKanesDrool · 06/07/2024 18:57

Rondel · 06/07/2024 18:57

Exactly.

Fortunately in my case it was pre-Internet, so we just scribbled PAUL+LISA4EVER on walls.

IDST

BobbyBiscuits · 06/07/2024 18:59

Sounds like immature nonsense. And tell her that hard to come, and bye, don't mean the same as hard to come by.
Ask him why he said what he did? But I'm sure it's not worth caring to be honest.

SamW98 · 06/07/2024 19:06

Sound like a pair other pathetic attention seeking drama queens who deserve each other.

Throw him back and let them act like 13 year olds well away from you

Twinklewonderkins · 06/07/2024 19:07

It’s very “OMG!! everyone is talking about this in year 10”.
If you are an actual adult please get rid and find someone else who isn’t an emotionally stunted drama person.
If you are 14 and into all this nonsense, my advice would still be the same.
chuck them back move on fast.

pandasorous · 06/07/2024 19:09

Rondel · 06/07/2024 18:57

Exactly.

Fortunately in my case it was pre-Internet, so we just scribbled PAUL+LISA4EVER on walls.

and don't forget writing inside desks with tippex

cryinglaughing · 06/07/2024 19:13

@HarryKanesDrool what does IDST mean? 🤔

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 19:14

Correction she posted on her story saying she’s hard to come by and is unforgettable. He viewed the post and responded to her post saying “yea yea yea”. I guess it was a sarcastic response? My question is why even respond to her post ? She wasn’t sending it to him the post was on her social media page for everyone to see

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HarryKanesDrool · 06/07/2024 19:15

cryinglaughing · 06/07/2024 19:13

@HarryKanesDrool what does IDST mean? 🤔

You'll only know it if you ever carved initials into a tree or wherever back in the day long before mobile phones were invented.

cryinglaughing · 06/07/2024 19:19

HarryKanesDrool · 06/07/2024 19:15

You'll only know it if you ever carved initials into a tree or wherever back in the day long before mobile phones were invented.

If Destroyed Still True 🤣

BirthdayRainbow · 06/07/2024 19:20

Embarrassing immature

MrsGhastlyCrumb · 06/07/2024 19:24

Megacringe.

Skybluepinky · 06/07/2024 19:26

Get rid.

Reugny · 06/07/2024 19:26

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 19:14

Correction she posted on her story saying she’s hard to come by and is unforgettable. He viewed the post and responded to her post saying “yea yea yea”. I guess it was a sarcastic response? My question is why even respond to her post ? She wasn’t sending it to him the post was on her social media page for everyone to see

Why don't you ask him?

You all seem very immature.

MammaTo · 06/07/2024 19:51

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 19:14

Correction she posted on her story saying she’s hard to come by and is unforgettable. He viewed the post and responded to her post saying “yea yea yea”. I guess it was a sarcastic response? My question is why even respond to her post ? She wasn’t sending it to him the post was on her social media page for everyone to see

It wasn’t a sarcastic response, he was flirting with her. Chuck him back.

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 20:00

MammaTo · 06/07/2024 19:51

It wasn’t a sarcastic response, he was flirting with her. Chuck him back.

Do you think he might have feelings for her still ? By his response?

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MammaTo · 06/07/2024 20:15

LexiAllen · 06/07/2024 20:00

Do you think he might have feelings for her still ? By his response?

I do sorry, I think the whole interaction that you’ve quoted means the door is wide open with her.