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I found an engagement ring!!!!!

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 12:00

After almost 7 years together and hoping that I'd get a proposal... I've just accidentally found the ring!!!!!!!! Putting his flaming underwear away, stuffed at the back of the drawer! Of course I looked... tried it on... it's exactly what I'd wanted and is my size! I'm overjoyed! But annoyed I found it too!

I can't tell anyone of course... I have to keep it all in! But... ARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I'm just so freakin' excited!!!!!!!

I really hope he does it soon... he knows I don't do flashy, public things. So I'm hoping it's romantic and just the two of us, or just our family (we both have children from previous relationships). He knows me so well though so I'm sure it will be lovely. He's a teacher, so I'm guessing something might happen over the summer holidays 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞. Or perhaps it could be later this year near my 40th. I'm guessing it won't be for my 40th though, he wouldn't do it then. But he might do it around that time.

Sorry for all the exclamations marks! I'm a little excited as you can probably tell. Grin

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SeriouslyWorriedEars · 13/08/2024 18:01

Rosscameasdoody · 13/08/2024 17:47

Life’s too short for pissing on people’s cornflakes.

Life has continuously pissed on my cornflakes

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 13/08/2024 18:18

ikeo · 13/08/2024 08:10

I agree - I never know why they think the last night is the best time to do it when you have to pack and have the stress of flying back the next day!

My friend also proposed on holiday (I helped him choose the ring), and I told him to propose on the second night, which he did. His (now) wife thanked me for that when they got back home!

Well it would put a bit of a dampener on things and make the rest of the holiday a bit awkward if you proposed the first night away, and they said "no".

WalkInAStraightLine · 13/08/2024 18:21

Combattingthemoaners · 13/08/2024 08:01

Another one. Grown women.

I don't understand what you mean in your reply to me - sorry.
I assume it's random sniping because I said I thought it was a shame people come on here to insult people and pretend that it's adding to the fun.

Anyway, I'm all for being direct usually but I still wouldn't tell STBDH I'd found the ring! I wonder if pics/name of hotel should be removed in case he googles it in future... or is that a bit paranoid?!

HavingABitOfAMare · 13/08/2024 18:25

Rosscameasdoody · 13/08/2024 17:47

Life’s too short for pissing on people’s cornflakes.

I don't even eat cornflakes.

I'm just here to see how long the saga continues.

Deadbeatex · 13/08/2024 18:34

For flips sake OP I've been following this thread from the day you posted and I've patiently been checking updates and waiting for the photo of the ring on your finger as have many others. Your man needs to stop dilly dallying now and get a move on! You need to tell him soooooo many people are now invested in this proposal and our patience is wearing thin lmao

Hoping the next update will be the one 🤞🏻👰‍♀️

Twoshoesnewshoes · 13/08/2024 18:37

What time is it in…. Hang on…Tenerife??

gingercat02 · 13/08/2024 18:38

Same as UK in the Canaries and Portugal

TheShellBeach · 13/08/2024 18:53

This thread will have got to 1,000 posts before the OP has that ring on her finger.
🤣

JudgeJ · 13/08/2024 20:11

ikeo · 13/08/2024 12:44

I’m starting to think that he knows you know…

That's what I was thinking, he's on MN and enjoying the drama! The OP should remove the ring box, make him panic, then replace it when he's in the bathroom.

Combattingthemoaners · 13/08/2024 20:27

WalkInAStraightLine · 13/08/2024 18:21

I don't understand what you mean in your reply to me - sorry.
I assume it's random sniping because I said I thought it was a shame people come on here to insult people and pretend that it's adding to the fun.

Anyway, I'm all for being direct usually but I still wouldn't tell STBDH I'd found the ring! I wonder if pics/name of hotel should be removed in case he googles it in future... or is that a bit paranoid?!

Sorry, I thought this was aimed at me:
“People getting annoyed and posting to instruct others not to post if they're annoyed isn't the most helpful.”

I do apologise!

Tarkan · 13/08/2024 20:30

I still have butterflies with DH, and we act like silly teenagers together too despite being in our 40s. Life is too short to not enjoy it as much as you can. We've been together 11 years and married for 6.

He also proposed on holiday but he got too excited and basically asked as soon as we checked into the hotel on the first night. I told him I wanted him on one knee 🤣 So he actually did. Later that night as we were on a bridge over a river. Just a shame he chose the road bridge and not the foot bridge and we had roadworks all around us but we laugh our heads off at that. It was our romantic moment. 😁

krazynutnut · 13/08/2024 20:31

🤣 dad just asked if there's been any more updates, bless him. So excited for you op. Was wondering whether the 'secret' with your sd was that she hides the ring, may explain why its not hidden so great. 🤔

TheLastTimeEver · 13/08/2024 20:34

I think the silence so far tonight means it’s tonight. OP hoping you’re doing something exciting tonight!! 🥰💍💍💍

5475878237NC · 13/08/2024 21:00

It's just occured to me OP and her partner got together when he had a pregnant ex wife/newborn baby. Does that gross anyone else out? I don't have a double standard, I wouldn't expect the mother of a newborn to be prioritising her sex life either! Becoming a father for the first time is such a life changing experience and he was focusing on getting his next wife.

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Clafoutie · 13/08/2024 21:20

5475878237NC · 13/08/2024 21:00

It's just occured to me OP and her partner got together when he had a pregnant ex wife/newborn baby. Does that gross anyone else out? I don't have a double standard, I wouldn't expect the mother of a newborn to be prioritising her sex life either! Becoming a father for the first time is such a life changing experience and he was focusing on getting his next wife.

No, it doesn’t gross me out because I try not to make wild assumptions based on zero evidence!?

Shallysally · 13/08/2024 21:44

5475878237NC · 13/08/2024 21:00

It's just occured to me OP and her partner got together when he had a pregnant ex wife/newborn baby. Does that gross anyone else out? I don't have a double standard, I wouldn't expect the mother of a newborn to be prioritising her sex life either! Becoming a father for the first time is such a life changing experience and he was focusing on getting his next wife.

We don’t know the circumstances of the break up.

Also, the OP and her partner have been together for seven years. It’s not as though he divorced his wife and had rushed to marry the OP 🙄

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 13/08/2024 21:49

Shallysally · 13/08/2024 21:44

We don’t know the circumstances of the break up.

Also, the OP and her partner have been together for seven years. It’s not as though he divorced his wife and had rushed to marry the OP 🙄

We wouldn't be here waiting if he had 😂

Fourecks · 13/08/2024 21:51

OP might be rounding up how long they've been together and SD might be closer to 8 than 7, in which case there might be a bigger gap between her birth and then getting together than it initially appears, especially if her DP and his former partner broke up early in the pregnancy.

MarisCapri · 13/08/2024 21:55

I have worked it out.
Didn’t the OP say that although her DP is amazing, he has two faults, forgetful and disorganised….

i reckon he’s forgotten where he put the ring…😂

Shallysally · 13/08/2024 21:58

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 13/08/2024 21:49

We wouldn't be here waiting if he had 😂

True! 😂

babbi · 13/08/2024 21:59

Placemarking now as I can’t wait for the exciteming update !

AnnieMcFanny · 13/08/2024 22:05

I hope he gets a move on or he’ll be too old to get up off of his bended knee if he leaves it much longer.

lazarusb · 13/08/2024 22:09

I've been lurking on this thread for ages. Really hope he proposes soon. Or another thread is definitely going to be required!

P0mbears · 13/08/2024 22:13

Hoping for some good news tonight!

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