This isn't ok is it?

[IamaRevenant]

I feel like on my relationship I've lost all concept of what's ok. Can someone tell me if this is normal/ok?

I've just been in hospital for 5 days for a chronic illness so I'm aware I'm not looking my best. This morning I hugged my husband and he looked at my face and said 'look at how beautiful you aren't'

Is this ok? A joke? I'm already feeling quite fragile so I don't trust myself to make a judgement call. He's acting like what he said was fine

I mean how insulting is this? I don't even know why he's talking about 57k or my house in Woking that I sold 5 years before I even met him. I just need to keep onto my anger here

WTAF

Woah he's a piece of work, on a positive note all this should help your resolve to never get back with him. You must be fuming.I hope your new work are supportive, I know if it were one of my team I would want to help.

Is this what he sent to your new boss? Why would he be emailing your boss or talking about your finances?
Well done for moving out, and I hope you feel stronger soon. What a piece of shite he is.

What a vindictive asshole! Did your boss forward it to you?

This is so identifying op, ask for it to be deleted.

It's very easy to find you both on Facebook with this info.

Hi op. I have reported your post as it shows your real name. Maybe edit if you can?

I've reported as well.

I feel this is a typical man, not reading the situation at all and making a really badly timed/placed joke 🙄 😒

Thanks everyone for the reporting! It's not my real name though and my Facebook is locked down. I don't really care if people can identify me though - what can they do with that information really?

Have you RTFT, or at least all the OPs posts? Thankfully this is not a 'typical man' (albeit not uncommon enough).

Ah ok. But has he got an ongoing dialogue with your employer?