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Orgasms through intercourse alone - common or not?

112 replies

Cosmogirl · 01/04/2008 20:57

How common is it for women to reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone?? Was discussing this with a couple of my girlfriends over some vino and the consensus seemed to be that it isn't that common.....

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zippitippitoes · 01/04/2008 22:34

crikey 60mseconds

takes me a heck of a lot longer than that

and with a vibrator

in fact 60 seconds would be too quick i like the anticipation

madamez · 01/04/2008 22:35

If you can with ease, it's to do with your anatomy (ie the size/position of your clit. No Expat you needn't post a photograph on your profile ). For some women, some positions can do it, I haven;t got the book handy right now so can;t tell you if any are supposedly guaranteed but you can often have fun trying.

expatinscotland · 01/04/2008 22:36

nah, i never go that far.

but tbh, i'd trade my ability to orgasm quickly and easily for some money .

minorityrules · 01/04/2008 22:39

only way I can (other than rabbit)

Never from oral and never from fingers even mine, guess I'm a rarity

Heathcliffscathy · 01/04/2008 22:41

pleasure about eve.

i'm enjoying the female thing enormously....have been gasping and laughing outloud as i read it!

skyatnight · 01/04/2008 22:42

I've never achieved orgasm via penetration.

It works clitorally/oral and I can also achieve a different kind of orgasm by pressing on my tummy just above the pubic bone. Am I a freak?

I am envious of those who can orgasm via penetration. I wish I was built that way. I'm sure men must prefer it.

Remotew · 01/04/2008 22:43

Yeah, Bob is my bf atm. Must admit there is nothing like a lovely sensual snog etc etc and no devise with batteries can ever replace that, even if he does fail at the final hurdle.

I dont think the OP meant the position of the clit. She wanted to know how easy if it was'nt there. I think the general reply is not very. Except Expat and a few other lucky bitches women

NomDePlume · 01/04/2008 22:47

skyatnight - I guess by pressing on your lower stomach is stimulating your G spot externally. I guess you are pressing it towards the shaft of the penis and so it is rubbing againt your g-spot and making you orgasm.

Monkeytrousers · 01/04/2008 22:49

Never when I was young.

But whenever I have sex these days - which isn't as much - but I don't need any help and I defo know what I am doing. Hands free too.

skyatnight · 01/04/2008 22:49

Yes, I guess it must be that. I'm still envious though.

NomDePlume · 01/04/2008 22:51

I get to the 'nearly, nearly, NEARLY' stage but I need a bit of a helping hand to tip over the edge.

Monkeytrousers · 01/04/2008 22:51

Nothing beats a snog. But I dunno about yous- just thinking about having my nipples stimulated is enough to bring orgasm on.

I'd love to ask now much self-objection has to do with it - cos it has a lot to do with mine [blus]

AnotherFineMess · 01/04/2008 22:52

Rare but enjoyable, in a bit of a hard work kind of way, like an evening out at a fine restaurant. I still enjoy a filthy fast food feast though, if I'm not mixing my metaphors?

NomDePlume · 01/04/2008 22:52

I was stupidly orgasmic throughout pregnancy though. I could have them at the drop of a hat

poshwellies · 01/04/2008 22:52

only achieved it once ever.

Have no trouble orally or via the clitoris (or flicking the bean as my dh so loving puts it),I do find having my hips slanted at angle more sensual thou.

Runs off

Monkeytrousers · 01/04/2008 22:53

I was never so self- aware sexuallyu as I am now though 10 years ago - or even five!

Monkeytrousers · 01/04/2008 22:55

NDP, I had an orgasm every day of my pregnancy with DS - all automatic unforunatley - but I'd love to find out if carrying boys makes you more randy! This seems to be the case anecdotally.

QuintessentialShadows · 01/04/2008 22:56

My BOB is packed with the house move. I should have taken him in my suitcase. I am so bloody sex starved right now. And I wont get to see my dh till end of april.

I shall now officially step away from sex threads....

Monkeytrousers · 01/04/2008 22:58

I prefer vaginal - though in actuality it's a bit of both - better than a rub down though

poshwellies · 01/04/2008 22:58

got RSI then quint?

Mumcentreplus · 01/04/2008 23:03

funnily enough I can Orgasm without even touching myself..by just clenching my thighs...porn helps..lol

davidtennantsmistress · 01/04/2008 23:05

mt - couldn't agree more - oh the dreams I had about sting when carrying DS always woke up feeling terribly guilty with H there! lol.

hmm, never had an O thru intercourse - without additional help - ie a hand or two but have with the hand, then again, I was asked if I was 'spurting' double no idea what he meant but at 16 I didn't like to say that!

me and bob go way back as well - he's ahem my best buddy right now!

NomDePlume · 01/04/2008 23:06

I was horrifically horny. Mine was a girl

warthog · 01/04/2008 23:06

well according to new scientist they have actually found the g-spot which is what they reckon is responsible for the vaginal orgasm.

KerryMum · 01/04/2008 23:06

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