Orgasms through intercourse alone - common or not?

[Cosmogirl]

How common is it for women to reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone?? Was discussing this with a couple of my girlfriends over some vino and the consensus seemed to be that it isn't that common.....

anyone admit to watching porn while pregnant,I was super horny..or was it just me>>?

My dh was away working-thats my excuse and i'm sticking to it

Warthog, I love the comments on the article in that link. Bitchy and funny.

Only once here. Have been unsuccessfully trying to recreate it for the last 10 yrs . Am reassured by the number of "nos", I am quite slow too so often feel guilty that I'm taking too long and just give up.
New resolution is to make it clear that I'm NOT done though... Wondering if a vibrator would be a faster route but think DH would be horrified.

4 out of 5 times I suppose. After foreplay only though. And if it happens it happens quickly. I get bored if DH goes on too long and start getting cramp and wondering what to cook for dinner.

I'm an everytime kind of girl here.

Sometimes. Much more easily from behind, am sure that's about the angle and the anatomy, and only ever with my DP, though I'd never really had that great sex before. Requires him to take a bit longer, though.

Yes, nearly always, but for some reason it's become easier since having children - I don't know what strange effect that had on my anatomy!

With my partner, who I met when I was 35 - orgasm from penetration alone every time, including the first time.

But before that - never, ever.

It's a state of mind and being, IMO. Self-awareness and consciousness and the ability to let yourself go.

Childbirth was the same mental and physical process - just needed to let my body take over my mind....

Hm, it's interesting that many people are still together with the first person who was able to give them a penetration orgasm. I will keep looking.

I wouldn't want to only have orgasms from penetration alone, mind you. I like a bit of variety.

skyatnight - it's a dealmaker

Yes, I can only imagine, Anna.

Ahhhh, the romantic holy grail of simultaneous orgasms. Just like Mills & Boon.

I had never had an orgasm till I got a vibrator, and still can't get there without it.

Not sure why? I enjoy sex and am quite unhinited but just don't quite get there.

Common here!

SSB - don't you think that orgasm from penetration (no other stimulation) empties your head and relaxes you in a way that orgasm from clitoral stimulation never can?

Agree with others that it happens more since had children. How bizarre.

Novicecamper - do you think that you have got more in touch with your bodily feelings by having been pregnant/given birth?

Is it nature's way of compensating you for the pain of childbirth and encouraging you to 'do' 'it' again?

skyatnight - no.

But orgasm from penetration and the whole pregnancy/childbirth process are highly related, IMO. All about loosening the mind's grip and letting your body take control.

Anna - I don't think so, I don't think anything has changed there. I don't know why it is - maybe things are different, anatomically, down there?!

There's a different type as far as I know, different from the more common external related one. It's all internal, and feels much more fuzzy. Something related to the G-spot I think.

But in answer to the question, I think most people would say that type is quite rare.

I didn't deliver vaginally, and it definitely started with my DP but pre-children (I can remember the night tmi, sorry). Definitely a dealmaker!

Always used to with an ex

Rarely with loveable DH

Should I be worried??!

Agree with Anna. It require the ability to really relax, free your mind and let your body take over. Something that females find hard to do especially if we are self conscious.

dragonfaerie,

nah no need to be worried. remember mens anatomies are different and shall we say stimulate you in different areas? I dont quite know how to put that without being explicit