had ds2 11 months ago. DH and I are separating amicably. Am just starting to get interest from new bloke.
OK, so I thought I was so very confident and attractive and all that, & then I happened to catch sight of my stomach last night. Oh GOD. It looks as if it belongs to someone 60 years older. Not a portion of the lower abdomen that doesn't have stretchmarks, but the worst is the combined wrinkliness and looseness.
I immediately did some situps then gave up and cried. I actually feel as if I can't go out with him because I am such a total minger.
I know that if he objects to that kind of thing you nice mners will probably tell me he's 'not good enough' for me anyway but frankly, I fancy him and want him to fancy me. I don't want him seeing that and going 'errrr....'
What do I do, short of a tummy tuck? which I'm considering, frankly, if I come into a sudden flood of cash...