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Typed partners name into google- freaking shocked

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Umwelt · 02/11/2023 20:32

we have been together two years. we are very close and open (so i thought). i was updating my ICE details at work and typed her name in google as i know my lot might too.
it turned out she was in big brother (foreign country version) and had sex on tv.
she fcuked a bloke she just met on live tv and almost marry him. this was 20 years ago.
i am lost.
as far as i knew, she was with someone else at the time show was recorded.
so i do not care about her decisions at the time but why the fcuk not share something this significant. i dont care about the past, we all have it but if it is on the net then maybe.

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allaloneandlost · 02/11/2023 21:43

RosaMoline · 02/11/2023 21:41

With all this repeated use of ‘lol’
and ‘rofl’ 🙄 (you sound extremely juvenile by the way) - you don’t sound exactly devastated by this shocking discovery & I think you’re on the wind up. Reported.

I agree. It's half-term isn't it? I don't like calling somebody out and would prefer to give somebody the benefit but glad it's obvious to others. I've reported as well.

Happy to be proved otherwise but it's sad to waste people's time when the vast majority of posters are kind and intelligent. It might put people off helping somebody genuine.

Apossum · 02/11/2023 21:47

So she did tell you, and you dismissed it. Give me strength. I can see why it might be discomforting to see visual evidence of her past but it was your choice to disregard what she told you about her past.

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Umwelt · 02/11/2023 21:52

Umwelt · 02/11/2023 21:42

what country am i in and what country is was the show from? chill.

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oh yeah, i forgot to change nick. every European country had
an event like this, it was the point of the show.

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jupitermonket · 02/11/2023 21:55

Umwelt · 02/11/2023 21:42

what country am i in and what country is was the show from? chill.

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You seem remarkably unconcerned about outing her and her relationship woes on the internet. It doesn’t take much to find her, given what you’ve said on this thread.

If this is real (and I’m beginning to have my doubts that it is…), and if you really care about and respect her, get the thread taken down. And post again with an anonymised situation if you’re still really desperate for advice. We don’t need all those details to talk about your perceived problem.

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Umwelt · 02/11/2023 21:56

Apossum · 02/11/2023 21:47

So she did tell you, and you dismissed it. Give me strength. I can see why it might be discomforting to see visual evidence of her past but it was your choice to disregard what she told you about her past.

she did tell me something that didnt make much sense without dressing it up so i dismissed it yes.

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Umwelt · 02/11/2023 21:58

jupitermonket · 02/11/2023 21:55

You seem remarkably unconcerned about outing her and her relationship woes on the internet. It doesn’t take much to find her, given what you’ve said on this thread.

If this is real (and I’m beginning to have my doubts that it is…), and if you really care about and respect her, get the thread taken down. And post again with an anonymised situation if you’re still really desperate for advice. We don’t need all those details to talk about your perceived problem.

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what details i gave and how in your opinion this thread should be presented?

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RosaMoline · 02/11/2023 21:58

Utterly pathetic.

HakunaMatiÅ‚da · 02/11/2023 22:00

what country am i in and what country is was the show from? chill.

Well it’s not hard to find the big scandal from 2001 searching for a European Big Brother.

Myfabby · 02/11/2023 22:01

this sounds like a lover scorned. has she just dumped you?

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Umwelt · 02/11/2023 22:03

HakunaMatiÅ‚da · 02/11/2023 22:00

what country am i in and what country is was the show from? chill.

Well it’s not hard to find the big scandal from 2001 searching for a European Big Brother.

do you honestly think i am so thick to give hints that would lead anyone to get to anything?
i painted a picture as i wanted opinion on situation and feelings, facts are facts, rest is not really relevant

OP posts:
FreeRider · 06/11/2023 22:56

Umwelt · 02/11/2023 22:03

do you honestly think i am so thick to give hints that would lead anyone to get to anything?
i painted a picture as i wanted opinion on situation and feelings, facts are facts, rest is not really relevant

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So Romanian Big Brother, yes?

MMmomDD · 06/11/2023 23:44

OP - you are all in your 40s now. Her friends either know about or not.
No one is going to google your GF. Why would they?

It‘s not what grown ups do.
You didn’t google her when you met.

If you are this bothered - just leave. She then can meet a normal guy who isn’t this insecure about perceived public judgement.

Cumbrianlife · 06/11/2023 23:58

Are you really rofl? How nasty of you to spend two days hinting.

Universalsnail · 07/11/2023 00:02

My goodness get over yourself. It was a fuck between two consenting adults 20 years ago. Why do you even care? I sure don't care what consensual sex my partner had 20 years ago.

Asformending · 07/11/2023 00:13

If I were her, I'd find my partner posting on MN about my past far more concerning tbh....really why are you?

almondseagull · 07/11/2023 10:16

please please PLEASE use the proper words

FUCK not fcuk

We are all adults here *mostly

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