Scared

[Fourhorses]

My husband and I are separating. We talked tonight about preparing the house for sale. Our marriage is dead and I feel like I’m going out of my mind. I’ve seen a therapist for a year and I still cannot trust my feelings. I feel like I’m going out of my mind. That I’ve made the whole thing up, that I’m destroying everything. It’s like me life since marriage has just been surreal. I am so scared.

It is a huge change, be kind to yourself

Thank you @RandomMess you’ve been kind twice now, I really appreciate it.

Are you separated?

Yes I've divorced and remarried.

During one of my marriages there was a horrific 2 years when my H basically shut me out emotionally and it was truly horrific and it traumatised me.

Being alone and being lonely are awful feelings to deal with. It can take a long time but it does get better.

Learning that I am enough in my own right was a painful journey but it's made me stronger and happier.

Hang on in there, 3/4 months is very early days still

Hello everyone,

I am just reading back over this thread I started over a couple of years ago, which is alarming. I am slow to give an update, not massively positive or empowering. But I am wondering how everyone else is and the ladies who mentioned they were in similar situations.
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