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What the hell is a 'Breeding kink'?

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SickOfItNoww · 05/01/2022 16:31

I keep seeing it on Tiktok Confused

I mean, they all make jokes about having this then freaking out when they really do get pregnant so is it like a fantasy thing? For getting pregnant?

I really don't understand and don't wanna Google for obvious reasons.

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LampLighter414 · 05/01/2022 16:34

Yes a fantasy of unprotected and getting pregnant type thing

B1rdflyinghigh · 05/01/2022 16:35

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SickOfItNoww · 05/01/2022 16:46

How bizarre. What a weird thing to be turned on by Hmm

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scorpiogirly · 05/01/2022 16:46

No wonder there are so many unwanted children in the world, people like this disgust me.

BeMoreGoldfish · 05/01/2022 16:48

Wtf??? That’s the weirdest thing I’ve heard in a while 😳

Ozanj · 05/01/2022 16:50

It’s usually just unprotected sex in a ‘deep’ missionary position.

SlidingInto2022sDMs · 05/01/2022 16:51

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Footnote · 05/01/2022 16:51

Sometimes I really wonder what people were turned on by before the internet.

Bananalanacake · 05/01/2022 16:52

How do to they protect against STDs

SlidingInto2022sDMs · 05/01/2022 16:52

Breeding kink

Ew!

ethelredonagoodday · 05/01/2022 16:52

@Footnote

Sometimes I really wonder what people were turned on by before the internet.
Yep. Agreed. Utterly bizarre.
PineappleTart · 05/01/2022 16:56

The world would be a funny place if we all liked the same things

user1481840227 · 05/01/2022 16:57

@Bananalanacake

How do to they protect against STDs
Many people with a breeding kink are in committed relationships, I've never heard that it's Usually by a random stranger. More often by a black man.

And often the woman is on contraception too so there's no actual risk of pregnancy and they don't even want to get pregnant, but during sex they like to play on the idea that they might get pregnant!!

Bananalanacake · 05/01/2022 16:59

And what if the man they pick on is up for casual sex but insists on using a condom?

SickOfItNoww · 05/01/2022 17:02

But I don't understand how the thought of getting pregnant, with a baby, is a sexual turn on.

Why would the act of creating a baby get you sexually excited, rather than the act of sex getting you excited the the consequences being a child (wanted or not)

It's very on the line of being inappropriate to me and giving me really weird vibes.

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user1481840227 · 05/01/2022 17:04

@Bananalanacake

I would imagine the amount of people who engage in this with a random stranger for casual sex is extremely low.

For most it's a really tame 'kink' that's rooted in biology and lots of people who love it don't even consider it to be a kink, because of how it is so clearly related to biology..and as I said a lot of the people don't even actually want to 'breed', it's just about pretending!

scorpiogirly · 05/01/2022 17:04

@SickOfItNoww

But I don't understand how the thought of getting pregnant, with a baby, is a sexual turn on.

Why would the act of creating a baby get you sexually excited, rather than the act of sex getting you excited the the consequences being a child (wanted or not)

It's very on the line of being inappropriate to me and giving me really weird vibes.

I don’t get it either, I had never heard of this before this post. But I guess it could be akin to people who like the thrill of possible contracting HIV by having unprotected sex? I could be way off the mark though.
SpindleyCrow · 05/01/2022 17:10

@Footnote

Sometimes I really wonder what people were turned on by before the internet.
The Book of Kells.
jetadore · 05/01/2022 17:10

But I guess it could be akin to people who like the thrill of possible contracting HIV by having unprotected sex?

The thrill of what?

Hotelhelp · 05/01/2022 17:12

This is why you can’t find me selling their sperm online …

user1481840227 · 05/01/2022 17:12

@SickOfItNoww

But I don't understand how the thought of getting pregnant, with a baby, is a sexual turn on.

Why would the act of creating a baby get you sexually excited, rather than the act of sex getting you excited the the consequences being a child (wanted or not)

It's very on the line of being inappropriate to me and giving me really weird vibes.

Because many men and women get extremely turned on by the idea of their partner ejaculating inside them, because biology induces that feeling because it wants people to procreate.

Of course not everyone feels that way so that would be an argument against the biology explanation but the same could be said for a lot of other things driven by biology too, in some people it's still strong and primal!

There's some men who are extremely sexually excited by their pregnant partner and often describe the feeling as 'primal' and having an overwhelming urge to protect and provide for her and the baby, then there's other wankers out there who seem to be missing any kind of basic primal feelings to look after their babies and they treat their pregnant partner appallingly and don't care if it impacts on their baby, of course there are people in the middle too!

I believe part of what gets people sexually excited is the idea that a child would bond them together forever.

Flobbertybillop · 05/01/2022 17:12

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user1481840227 · 05/01/2022 17:13

@jetadore

But I guess it could be akin to people who like the thrill of possible contracting HIV by having unprotected sex?

The thrill of what?

Definitely never heard of that one!!!!
Flobbertybillop · 05/01/2022 17:13

It’s a harmless kink between two consenting adults, and as long as no actual children are bred, what’s the harm?

Georgeskitchen · 05/01/2022 17:14

I despair at the puerile stream of bilge that pours out of these kind of sites day and night. I don't have tiktok but I've seen a few videos shared. And not by daft youngsters but fully grown adults!!

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