I am a regular but do not wish my dh to see this.
Dh cheated 4 years ago, almost to the date. I was pregnant at the time.
I had no clue he was spending time with another until I received a text telling me [from her] that my dh did not want to be with me, he then waited until I had given birth to dd then told me every detail.
He done it because I told him I did not love him as he was hurting me in other ways at the time. I asked him to leave, so I could think through my feelings, he did, she was there waiting.
We have had counselling. I love him but I am unsure if I will ever forgive him.
I cannot drive through the Town she lives in as it makes me feel ill and it is all I can do to stop myself seeking her out and doing bad things to her.
Every time I pass where she lives I think about this.
I still talk to my dh about it but he sighs and says "it was nothing"....
It was more of a friendship than a sexual affair but the pain is still bad.
The ache in the pit of my stomach is still there after all this time.
Will it ever go?
Or do I split up my family and find someone else who would never treat me like this?
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BadlyHurt · 27/11/2007 13:23
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