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Checking partners phone

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MumsTheWord1010 · 04/07/2021 15:51

I dont always do it but something just came over me and I looked at my partners phone when he was in the shower. There was a message from an unknown number with a local address saying" I'm now here" it was 11 o clock that the message was received on a night he was out at his friend's, He got in about 11.40 that night. I checked the number on Google and it's an escort. I'm currently pregnant with our 2nd baby and we also have a 6 month old, we are very intimate , I have no idea why he would stray.. he says it was just a random message.. but would they send you their address if it was a random message . I've cried my heart out over this , he's completely denied it all. I'd just like to know the truth so I can deal with it but he says he doesn't know how he got the message . I want to believe him but it's just so unbelieve.. what do you think. He's not young , he's in his 50s tia

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QueenBee52 · 06/07/2021 03:09

He is disgusting OP... I wouldn't believe a word he says after he lied and lied to your face. 🌸

Shelddd · 06/07/2021 03:28

Just want to add another comment that I don't think an escort anywhere has ever given a handjob with a condom on. What a joke of a response he gave.

Probably been going on for a long time, maybe he's even been doing it his whole lifetime, who knows.

Time to move on, sorry.

MsDogLady · 06/07/2021 03:44

This man’s priority is buying women’s bodies for sleazy illicit gratification. He has zero respect for you and your children, and has chosen to put all of your health at risk. This is who he is. As a husband and father, he is the lowest of the low.

OP, you would be very unwise to give this liar further opportunities to manipulate you. He is uninvested, unreliable and untrustworthy. You and your sweet children deserve much, much better. Flowers

bookworm20 · 06/07/2021 12:40

OP, I really hope you are ok.
I can't even imagine how I'd even begin to process this, finding this sort of information out and especially when pregnant.
But I do know one thing, and that would be I could never again look at him, let alone touch him.

Od130990 · 11/07/2021 10:23

If he uses an iPhone even if he has locations off, iPhone keeps track of locations regardless. Go to his settings, go to privacy then into locations scroll down to system settings and from there go to significant locations. It will tell you every address he's been at and the time he's spent there.

QueenBee52 · 11/07/2021 12:52

@Od130990

If he uses an iPhone even if he has locations off, iPhone keeps track of locations regardless. Go to his settings, go to privacy then into locations scroll down to system settings and from there go to significant locations. It will tell you every address he's been at and the time he's spent there.

oh wow is this true ...

jeeepers 😳

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