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Is there a secret OLD signal for having a high sex drive?

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DivorcedAndDelighted · 16/03/2021 23:37

I think it would be helpful if mainstream dating sites had some sort of question or filter to help you find someone with a similar sex drive. Eg "How important is sex to you?" and "In an ideal world, how often would you have sex?". But I don't think such a thing exists at the moment. Maybe this is a naive question, but is there some sort of hint that people put in OLD profiles to indicate that sex is really important to them? Because it's really important to me, and if I were to go on OLD again, I'm just not sure at what point you have that convo... "It's not even worth us meeting up if you are a once a fortnight kind of person". There are lots of wonderful people out there, so it's best to be with someone who has a compatible sex drive. But do you have to shag all the frogs first in order to find your Prince? How on earth does this work?

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DivorcedAndDelighted · 24/03/2021 15:44

Thanks @AverageGuy and @SortingItOut. I'm certainly not averse to a FWB situation - in fact, I too am seeing someone who was a FWB but it's turned into more. And I really like him, but am experiencing fear of loss, so I'm thinking about what I'd do if this fell apart. Maybe I will look at Fab with an open mind if so.

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WiseOwlOne · 24/03/2021 17:37

@namitynamechange you are so right with your point about "less credible witness".

eatsleepread · 24/03/2021 20:42

Ooh, I'm sure OkCupid had questions like this. Certainly it delved much deeper than the other sites.

AverageGuy · 25/03/2021 11:23

@eatsleepread - beat you to it! Grin Yes, it definitely asks these sort of questions.

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