AIBU to not want to put sexy underwear on?

[Couch2Potato]

OT keeps asking for me to dress up in sexy underwear but I keep dismissing or saying no..

I've asked whether I'm not enough for him and them he's accused me of putting words in his mouth.

Should I just buy some and put it on..

Humor him, do it once and see if things change outside of the bedroom.

@Polaris12 OP doesn't want to do this sexual thing. She shouldn't have people telling her she should do this sexual thing she doesn't want.

He clearly needs to be doing more for you in terms of intimacy outside of the bedroom, but if you havent sat and talked to him about it then how will he know?

@Polaris92 He's presumably not an actual chimp and knows basic ways of treating people ok which everyone would want.