"If you dont give me it, i will get it elsewhere" opinions?

[sunshineonearainyday]

Give me your opinions on this please
"if you don't give me it, i will get it elsewhere"

The only right answer to this is 'off you pop then, close the door on your way out '

Then make sure his stuff is on the doorstep for when he gets back.

As if. not a chance. That is coorsion.

Ltb

"Ok, bye then" would be an appropriate response.

Depends. If your both single then I don't see the problem. if your married its an obvious no-no.

Why are you in a relationship with someone you don't have sex with? Isn't that just a house share really?

Well of you fuck, and don't let the door hit you on the arse on your way out.

👋👋👋👋👋👋

My ex said this to me. I dumped him soon after. He was confused why, the idiot.

That isn't just a conversation that is necessarily limited to the quantity of sex in a relationship StephenBelefonte but could be about a particular kink or demand that won't be humoured.

The OP asked for opinions. I gave my opinion.

Totally depends on the context. There could be 100 different answers depending on what 'it' is - although obviously most people are assuming it's sex!

What Weatherwax said.

There used to be a phrase "Make love to . . ." I remember taking umbridge at that, and explaining that if someone didn't want to "Make love with" me then I wasn't getting involved. Conjured up images of lying back and thinking of England, whilst he got on with it!

I certainly wouldn't be "giving it to" anyone. Sex should be a two way street, and that phrase has a biiiig one way sign hanging above it.

@FredaFlintstone

Totally depends on the context. There could be 100 different answers depending on what 'it' is - although obviously most people are assuming it's sex!

Yeah exactly

Agree depends on what it is.

If it's a non sexual foot rub then paying someone else seems fine, for example.

I assume it's sex though?

Few things less attractive than being harassed /mithered for sex.

Frank discussion needed at the very least. Sex is not a right, its supposed to be something 2 people both enjoy (or more or less than 2). Otherwise it's wrong. I'd be horrified if my partner make threats like in the op or if they didn't want to have sex with me but still did so.

for context its about sex in a long term relationship

See you then!

If 'it' is a slice of my pizza, crack on.
If 'it' is sex, also crack on, but don't bother coming back you coercive wanker

'Off you fuck, sweet-cheeks' is the only approved reply to this.

@sunshineonearainyday

for context its about sex in a long term relationship

Ok, well the person saying it has every right to want to discuss why you aren't having sex and is free to leave the relationship if he or she feels like his/her needs aren't being met however the way that statement comes across is like a threat which never looks good

Fuckety bye.

I'll post this link again, give it a good read after the examples and show the twat the door, since you've had your other thread deleted. It's not the only things he does.

www.doctornerdlove.com/coerced-consent-yes-means-no/all/1/

@gamerchick the other thread is still there i just wanted opinions on him saying this as a lot of people said it was coercive

Fair enough. Pack your backs and piss off.

If your both single then I don't see the problem

If they are both single?

I think if they were both single, there would be no issues as there would be no sex anyway, would there?

In response to your question OP. For me it would be a simple "fuck off then'.

Bags.🙄
It's foul. Let me use your body like a wank sock or I'm off out to fuck anyone who'll let me.
There's no relationship to save after that imo