Secret planning to leave DH - days to go .

[Mydoghasbettereyebrowsthanme]

Hi there - previous thread started with DH AWOL , arrested for drink driving . Final straw for me in out marriage , planning to leave in secret on Thursday. 6 days to go . Feeling shit about everything - pain the kids will have to go through , pain and upset his family and him . Wishing he was a reasonable person enough that we could separate amicably. Wishing I could predict which way this is going to go- hating the double life I am currently leading . started this thread just for the hand holding whilst the proverbial hits the fan over the next 7 days !

Oh thank the Lord all went well! I was very concerned when he said he didn't want to go golfing - did he go in the end?

Well done, you've done it

That's great news and thanks for coming back to tell all of the people willing you on.
Well done, good for you and enjoy your wine. There'll be time tomorrow to sort and straighten things out.
Very best wishes for the future

So happy and pleased for you all. Enjoy your new home and all the happiness it and your new life give to you all

Great update brows, so pleased for you and the kids. Enjoy that

Huge achievement . Well done xx

I am so pleased for you. Well done!

So glad to see all went well. I hope it all works out for you and your kids going forward. You will no doubt still have a few tough days ahead. But in the long run it's for the best for you all.

Wonderful! Wishing you the very best for now and the future x

Oh my goodness,I'm.so.happy for you. If that isn't slightly weird under the circumstances. Sending you much love for a very happy future with your lovely dcs. 🥂
Cheers!

Congratulations OP!!! I hope you are very happy there.

Sweet dreams OP

Fabulous news.
Welcome to your New Home/Life.
🥂

How wonderful you are very strong and a beacon of inspiration for all the women on this board who may not be living quite the lives they would like.

Wonderful news.
Congratulations to you & your wonderful family & best wishes in you new, happy home 💕🌻

Been thinking about you all day, so pleased you’re safely tucked in your new home. Health and happiness to you all there, brighter days ahead

Excellent news. So happy for you OP.

Best news for a long time.

Well done to you and your great friends

What an excellent update. Im so pleased for you OP.
I hope your new life is as happy and peaceful as that cosy photo looks.

Phew! Beyond happy to see your update, enjoy your first night in your new home and bloody well done

Ah that's great news. Wishing you every happiness in your new home and with your bright new shiny future xxx

Oh OP ❤ what an amazing update! I'm so very pleased for you, I wish you a very happy future in your new home with your DCs!

Well done. 🤩

Yay ah well done to you! Hope you have a lovely sleep tonight xxx

Fantastic update. You are an absolute goddess. Well done. Sleep well.

Congratulations! Have been following since your previous thread and am thrilled you are in your new place. Bet you have the best sleep ever tonight!