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Please help am drowning

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Whatonearth2020 · 24/06/2020 23:27

DH said at start of lockdown he wanted divorce after 15yrs. We have 3 DS. Have to tell them next week. I can’t function.

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Cat112344 · 27/06/2020 03:10

So sorry he’s doing this to you OP💐

From now on stop taking care of him, no more washing his clothes or making his dinners. Sit down with him and the children and let him explain, after all it’s him that’s breaking up the family!

The things he’s said are so wrong. He was not unhappy for 15 years, it would be extremely hard to get through everyday if that was the case. He is trying to justify leaving you and he is doing that by being a cunt (sorry for the bad language 😭). Everything he has said is classic, ignore him.

Get everything in order (finances etc), get a damn good lawyer and don’t tell him a thing. I hope this works out ok for you OP, if there is another woman involved it won’t last. If he can leave after 15 yrs 3 kids then I doubt she’ll last very long. 🌺 xx

VivaVegas · 29/06/2020 11:17

Just checking how you are? Hope you are ok.

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